Isn't the point of a relationship that you've someone with whom to sleep consistently? Sleeping around happens when you're not pleasing enough for someone to want to come back again (or if you're having trouble finding anyone you find you like enough).
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Isn't the point of a relationship that you've someone with whom to sleep consistently? Sleeping around happens when you're not pleasing enough for someone to want to come back again (or if you're having trouble finding anyone you find you like enough).
ComradeDavo
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I've really been put offthe whole sleeping around this by last week. Aka now i'm single I sleptwith a couple of girls and to be honest I didn't really feel that greatafter...in fact after the 2nd one I felt a bit horsehockey because I was doing it for the sake of sex rather than cuz I actually liked her at all.
Oh, i do agree. What i was trying to say, admitedly very badly. That its now become more acceptable that females have multiple sexual partners so dont neccesarily stick with the one guy in a relationship they just dont get involed at all.
b etor said:
As davo just pointed out, good sex is more than just having an orgasm.
Why would it become such a common cultural construct if it is so much against human nature? The fact is, a lot of humans prefer monogamy.
Well as the old man whose been around many blocks in his life let's say it's "either/or". Either you're in a committed relationship or you're not.
Men tend to be interested in sexual variety so I see no problem with having multiple partners over short timeframes as long it's explained up front. We are not naturally monogamous and if you're looking for monogamy marry a lemur.
As LucyDuke/BC said, if you're in a committed relationship give that person enough respect to not cheat.
I find it interesting how many Mr./Mrs. Fabulous' "know good sex".
I'd say we've all got a lot to learn because chances are, especially with young people, you're more interested in your own physically selfish pleasures than your partners emotional and physcial ones.
Men tend to be interested in sexual variety so I see no problem with having multiple partners over short timeframes as long it's explained up front. We are not naturally monogamous and if you're looking for monogamy marry a lemur.
As LucyDuke/BC said, if you're in a committed relationship give that person enough respect to not cheat.
I find it interesting how many Mr./Mrs. Fabulous' "know good sex".
I'd say we've all got a lot to learn because chances are, especially with young people, you're more interested in your own physically selfish pleasures than your partners emotional and physcial ones.
skadistic
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Sex when you care about your partner is all about giving not getting. When you reach that level you know what good sex is. Its the whole exp. not the orgasim. If your not taking hours you aint doing it good........thats not including the set up of the swing and shackels......
I want to know where the constraints of girls when I was 15 has gone? Not that I think its bad its gone I'm just pissy that girls were no where near as 'fun' when I was that age like they are now.
Sex when you care about your partner is all about giving not getting. When you reach that level you know what good sex is. Its the whole exp. not the orgasim. If your not taking hours you aint doing it good........thats not including the set up of the swing and shackels......
discussing what the safety word should be because last time 'harder' wasn't the best choice..
Abaddon
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Saftly words are a great invention.. i always forget which is it tho....I hope i would soon catch on if it were started shouted rather than the "usual" words.
skadistic
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We use a pattern of squeels. Ball gags make words almost imposible.
Abaddon
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haha, anyway.. enough of the virtual puffing of chests.. we're hardly asking girls things here...
Girls: Do you actually appreciate unoriginal presants like flowers/chocs/jewels or demand something different?
Girls: Do you actually appreciate unoriginal presants like flowers/chocs/jewels or demand something different?
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Are girls more inclined to go for guys with lots of money then good looks?
I've noticed that in my school a lot of girls prefer to go out with the rich north Indian guys from Delhi (Damn them) rather than any of the other guys mainly because the rich north Indian guys from Delhi flaunt their wealth with their latest phones, laptops, ipods, cars, and obscene amounts of money that no one should be allowed to have.
But yeah those guys aren't much to look at but they all have girlfriends.
I've noticed that in my school a lot of girls prefer to go out with the rich north Indian guys from Delhi (Damn them) rather than any of the other guys mainly because the rich north Indian guys from Delhi flaunt their wealth with their latest phones, laptops, ipods, cars, and obscene amounts of money that no one should be allowed to have.
But yeah those guys aren't much to look at but they all have girlfriends.
Abaddon
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Oldest industry in the world...
MamboJoel
Cool.
Abaddon of course
Abaddon
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Damn my gender.. Where is Golden Touch when you need her?
Hitti-Litti
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Hehe... If Abaddon doesn't get to make a new thread, GT makes it!
Perfect couple!
Perfect couple!
CartesianFart
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After 50 pages in this thread you guys are surely pathetic and have no sense of pride of yourself!Why give in such flatteries to the thread which surely posit that once again men will forever try to dance for a chick's attention."Moths to the flames," I guess and the chicks in here knows it.
Abaddon
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Its pathetic to want a females opinion on something? Thats a big sexist 
Golden Touch
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we demenad something different. WE LIKE CARDS especially with sentimental messages. thats where major brownie points are at. surprises for no reason be it day trips, a funny gift or even one of the 'unoriginals' also go down well...
its mine its mine! so how do I do this.. *twirls hair and look cute*
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