Right, so what does it matter my choice of words, you should be judge me based on my intentions for the accusation.
Yep, you intended to make a pretty serious accusation, that could get you in trouble with Justice over here (and probably over there), and that's what you made.
I wonder if this disagreement has anything to do with the fact that most Brazilians are capable of reading other peoples' minds, while those from the U.S. generally can not.

Et tu?
The kid who is so smart that he managed to misspell his username has not offered a single argument of why I am wrong, nor have any of his playground buddied slinging mud on the sidelines.
I am not arguing anything controversial, I am not proposing any mind reading. All I am saying is that we should judge what people say over their intended meaning, not according to our own biases. I gave a clear, real life example of a foreigner who used a racist word without offending anyone because everyone understood he was referring to a different meaning. Why should we judge him on the form he employed, if his intentions were completely harmless?
Communication is about interpreting the meaning behind messages, and I am saying we should concentrate on that. Is that unreasonable? Is this somehow about "reading minds"?
rubyleaguefan said:
It's one thing to have a poster heavily outnumbered in a debate due to sheer weight of opinion, but when what is essentially a slanging match is fueled by people on the sideline essentially slinging mud at one guy and there seems to be at least some element of sides being chosen on personalities alone, well it's just not cool.
Indeed
And I very much doubt that my opinion on the matter is outnumbered, to those that bothered reading what I'm saying. It's a matter of one pathological case insulting me to see if I lose my temper, and a couple of buddies of his just slinging mud while refusing to enter the debate. This is hardly the first time this happens, and it isn't about me.
No wonder they can see fascism miles before anyone else could it see it coming, when everyone else only saw tape being tossed
Hey look, another playground buddy wants my attention!
That's what, your fourth pointless mudsling in this thread?