CFC-OT Sexual Orientation

What is your sexual orientation

  • Straight/Heterosexual

    Votes: 34 65.4%
  • Gay/Lesbian/Homosexual

    Votes: 7 13.5%
  • Bisexual/Pansexual

    Votes: 5 9.6%
  • Asexual

    Votes: 2 3.8%
  • Something Else

    Votes: 4 7.7%
  • Prefer Not To Say

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    52
Straight - only ever been with girls.
Although, one of them had a bit of an extra once.
 
Doesn't sound very scientific. I suspect the author believes there are no gay rugby players and all female shotputters are lesbian too.
All internet quizzes are based on the scientific minds.
 
But that just meant that I didn't enjoy watching chick flicks.
One would think straight guys would like watching chick flicks as it tells them what women want.
 
I'm just a vanilla straight dude. Never even felt a little bi-curious, really.

Am completely cool with gay dudes and gals, though. Always was. Despite growing up in a time and place where homophobia was the norm, that attitude never rubbed off on me (something which I'd rather attribute to having relatively enlightened parents, and to having read a lot of stuff from different points of view as I was growing up, than anything I feel that I deserve taking credit for myself).

(Back when I was younger and single and had, um, more time on my hands for that sort of thing, I would sometimes happen across pornography of the gay variety and look at some of it out of idle curiosity; it basically did nothing for me. No sense of anything either positive or negative.)
 
Pan-ish. Most of my relationships have been het and I lean that way, but I've been romatically/sexually involved with enbies and/or non-women, while my own gender is a mess. I tend to find women more attractive but god have you seen William Jackson Harper as Chidi? Ooooh baby.
 
Pan-ish. Most of my relationships have been het and I lean that way, but I've been romatically/sexually involved with enbies and/or non-women, while my own gender is a mess. I tend to find women more attractive but god have you seen William Jackson Harper as Chidi? Ooooh baby.
He's cute, but I find his extreme neuroticism a turn off for me, I find indecisiveness in men very unattractive.
 
He's cute, but I find his extreme neuroticism a turn off for me, I find indecisiveness in men very unattractive.

I can look past it because he is so cute and dweeby in his glasses and in general, and also the anxiety is relatable. His lack of decision making would eventually just make me make him always go out to eat at my favorite places.
 
He's cute, but I find his extreme neuroticism a turn off for me, I find indecisiveness in men very unattractive.
I have a similar thing with timid women. I wouldn't say that I dislike timidity, exactly - be who you wanna be - but it's a turn-off. (I remember hearing Gabrielle Reece in an interview talking about the masculine men she tends to be attracted to; of nerdy men, she said, "I'm sure they're nice guys, I just don't want to have sex with them." :lol: ) The women I'm attracted to tend to be bold, which is one reason I like superhero stories. When the 1970s Wonder Woman series was released on disc several years ago, on of the comments was by a man who said that it was while watching Wonder Woman when he was 8 years old that he realized he was gay (he wanted to be Wonder Woman for Halloween, but his mom wouldn't let him). Reading his comment made me laugh, in part because it was while watching Wonder Woman while I was 8 years old that I realized I was straight. So it's no surprise that today I watch shows like Jessica Jones, GLOW, and The Magicians. If a woman wants to shut me down, all she has to do is act like she's scared of me.
 
I have a similar thing with timid women. I wouldn't say that I dislike timidity, exactly - be who you wanna be - but it's a turn-off. (I remember hearing Gabrielle Reece in an interview talking about the masculine men she tends to be attracted to; of nerdy men, she said, "I'm sure they're nice guys, I just don't want to have sex with them." :lol: ) The women I'm attracted to tend to be bold, which is one reason I like superhero stories. When the 1970s Wonder Woman series was released on disc several years ago, on of the comments was by a man who said that it was while watching Wonder Woman when he was 8 years old that he realized he was gay (he wanted to be Wonder Woman for Halloween, but his mom wouldn't let him). Reading his comment made me laugh, in part because it was while watching Wonder Woman while I was 8 years old that I realized I was straight. So it's no surprise that today I watch shows like Jessica Jones, GLOW, and The Magicians. If a woman wants to shut me down, all she has to do is act like she's scared of me.
I like assertive but not domineering women. I like to be dominant but I want the woman to like it not merely put up w it out of laziness or meekness. I like when a woman does what I want because she WANTS to & if she doesn't want to she will tell me loud and clear what she does prefer.

Submissiveness = trust
Meekness = laziness, lack of confidence, victim-mentality, will let you lead but resent you later

Women (and men) who act meek usually have a dark underbelly of manipulativeness.
 
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