It is here. Engineering's toughest cookies here are Thermodynamics and Math 1. Law...well there's way more to learn. Including Roman Law and arguing skills. Don't know how those two fare abroad.
Christ...in that case (like most things end up being), that seems ridiculously dependent on location/school, etc.
At my school there's a few thousand Engineering students spread across a dozen-odd disciplines (Aerospace to Industrial Operations, and everything in between). Calculus II (I don't even know what they cover, honestly) and Organic Chemistry are initial weeders to get as many kids out of Engineering as possible..Engineering is widely evaluated to be the toughest college.
Like I said though, it depends on the university. I doubt an engineering discipline at Chicago approaches the difficulty of its Economics program, or Law at Harvard.
Sure they can. It is just not as easy as sitting down and reading a massive slab of text for whatever else. Properly taught, math is really not that hard even when you have neglected it for years. (and I have)
This. Honestly, so many teachers themselves don't like math. Kids come in with the expectation that math sucks and is hard from popular culture and their parents, and teachers who dislike the subject only reinforce that impression. By the time they're expected to make life decisions on their own, all they can think is that math sucks and they're no good at it, even though if they had competent math education some of them might have found at least some talent in the subject.
Yes, there will always be a segment of the population which truly hates math or is no good at it, and there are a lot of important things our society needs that don't require massive amounts of math (we'll always need artists, authors, etc, and I don't mean that facetiously).
IMHO, though, math education needs to get better, if only to stop negative reinforcement of math as particularly difficult to the average individual.