Expressing Your Opinion and Getting Digitally Lynched

I disagree, mainly because this (the bolder part) makes no sense considering you already said you consider the terms analogous. You're now saying something different - that the phrasing used isn't the same as calling someone racist.

I'm not sure what you mean here. I don't consider those statements to be analogous. That was what my initial point was - if you believe you can show the latter, why would you go one step removed and only say the latter? The implication being that I don't think you can really show the latter if you're only willing to say the former. I don't think I'm saying anything different.

Calling someone a racist isn't direct evidence of anything.

No of course it isn't evidence itself. My point is, if you're certain enough to apply that label then you should really have some evidence to show, so show it. If you're only going to say "you share some characteristics with racists" (have two legs, breathe oxygen, etc) rather than "you have expressed racist ideas" (hate blacks, etc), it implies you don't have evidence. If you can say the latter, then show the evidence.

Illustrating how someone is using racist arguments - intentionally or otherwise - both serves as a refutation (in that folks don't typically want to be making racist arguments. I'm assuming? Hoping, really), and also as a warning to other readers that there could be something bad faith here.

Again not quite sure what you mean here, but the initial part (showing how someone is using racist arguments) is exactly the sort of evidence I'm talking about. If you can show that the arguments themselves are racist. But that's not what was said. Perhaps I misinterpreted the initial comment, but I took "your views are indistinguishable from a racists" to be a variant of the "fellow traveller" thing. If the views themselves are racist then you would just say as much wouldn't you? You wouldn't need to point out that racists believe these things too.

I mean, if you want to call BCheek a racist, and that's a fair part of this discussion, feel free (I'm not telling you to break any rules, nor do I recommend that). It just seems you're more interested in poking holes on Cloud's argument, which to me is missing the point.

Without wishing to cause offence, I don't think I've even noticed him until this thread, so I have no idea if he is or not, so I'm not particularly inclined to do so. I don't really see how "missing the point" even comes into it, when I'm making my own point about what I think the choice of wording actually implies. But perhaps I'm reading more into it than is there.

One last point on "it being harder to refute". A common defense from racists who don't want to be called on their behaviour is to object to being called such. If you frame it according to the actual arguments being made, you make the debate about the argument (as it should be, ideally).

Well exactly. I feel like we're just talking past each other here, possibly based on a misunderstanding of what I initially meant if you think that I am now saying something different.


Edit that obviously flouts rules, but probably needs saying anyway - I hadn't read the text in question before posting the above, but I don't think this is bickering really. If anything I think it's a good example of exactly the sort of fair disagreement or discussion that this thread is actually about (if, indeed, it's about anything).
 
Folks seem to like posts for a variety of reasons that might include the following:
  • They like the poster
  • The post was clever, fun or interesting
  • They want to show they read the post, but not respond
  • They think that the poster is correct
  • They like to like posts
  • They want to pile on dislike for the targeted poster
  • All of the above
  • There might be more....
As an observer I don't see any way to actually know the intent of the like. I think deciding the intent of the liker from afar says more about the decider than the liker.
 
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Folks seem to like posts for a variety of reasons that might include the following:
  • They like the poster
  • The post was clever, fun or interesting
  • They want to show they read the post, but not respond
  • They think that the poster is correct
  • They like to like posts
  • They want to pile on dislike for the targeted poster
  • There might be more....
As an observer I don't see any way to actually know the intent of the like. I think deciding the intent of the liker from afar says more about the decider than the liker.

Yea I've never thought of Old hippy, J, Berzerker, TristanC, and so on liking stuff against me together as dogpiling on me.
 
As far as the title says of this thread -

I got banned from a lesbian forum by saying that you can cure cerebral palsy. I stated how to do it. And my motivation was to help a person who said: "i got cerebral palsy, it is lonely at home etc".

So I gave a prep talk instead of showing sympathy and got banned for that.

Of course I left that forum and realised that sometimes, even if people are insecure about admitting it, they just want attention.
 
As far as the title says of this thread -

I got banned from a lesbian forum by saying that you can cure cerebral palsy. I stated how to do it. And my motivation was to help a person who said: "i got cerebral palsy, it is lonely at home etc".

So I gave a prep talk instead of showing sympathy and got banned for that.

Of course I left that forum and realised that sometimes, even if people are insecure about admitting it, they just want attention.

This is why the practice of medicine is best licensed.
 
This is why the practice of medicine is best licensed.

I got my medical license. How do we improve the internet so that these people believe me instead of banning me?

I could upload a picture of my license, but since it is issued in Latvia, would USA girls care about that and take it seriously?
 
I got my medical license. How do we improve the internet so that these people believe me instead of banning me?

I could upload a picture of my license, but since it is issued in Latvia, would USA girls care about that and take it seriously?

If you can cure cerebral palsy, surely this is reproducible and something that can be documented. Why haven't you won the Nobel Prize?

Edit: Wait, you're the same person who believes in reiki and thinks Japan banned microwave ovens because microwaves cause cancer. Nevermind.
 
Two thoughts:

It has been my impression that the addition of Likes reduced the amount of dogpiling. I remember back in the day you would get like 10-15 posters jumping on, say, Domination3000 all wanting to add their snarky comment or hot take to whatever Glenn Beck Fever Dream he was posting about. Nowadays it seems most people just click Like in a "I agree with the sentiment but can't be bothered to make a post that would be basically the same as the one already made".

Second, if someone posts something racist, or an opinion that is not racist but #1 among racists, I have no problem with the Good People of CFC dogpiling on them.
 
A wise man once said...

I don't believe the claim is that having multiple people disagree and/or having people like other posts are the sole requirement(s) for something being labelled as a dogpile.
 
I'm not sure what you mean here. I don't consider those statements to be analogous. That was what my initial point was - if you believe you can show the latter, why would you go one step removed and only say the latter? The implication being that I don't think you can really show the latter if you're only willing to say the former. I don't think I'm saying anything different.

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No of course it isn't evidence itself. My point is, if you're certain enough to apply that label then you should really have some evidence to show, so show it. If you're only going to say "you share some characteristics with racists" (have two legs, breathe oxygen, etc) rather than "you have expressed racist ideas" (hate blacks, etc), it implies you don't have evidence. If you can say the latter, then show the evidence.

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Again not quite sure what you mean here, but the initial part (showing how someone is using racist arguments) is exactly the sort of evidence I'm talking about. If you can show that the arguments themselves are racist. But that's not what was said. Perhaps I misinterpreted the initial comment, but I took "your views are indistinguishable from a racists" to be a variant of the "fellow traveller" thing. If the views themselves are racist then you would just say as much wouldn't you? You wouldn't need to point out that racists believe these things too.

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Without wishing to cause offence, I don't think I've even noticed him until this thread, so I have no idea if he is or not, so I'm not particularly inclined to do so. I don't really see how "missing the point" even comes into it, when I'm making my own point about what I think the choice of wording actually implies. But perhaps I'm reading more into it than is there.

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Well exactly. I feel like we're just talking past each other here, possibly based on a misunderstanding of what I initially meant if you think that I am now saying something different.

Edit that obviously flouts rules, but probably needs saying anyway - I hadn't read the text in question before posting the above, but I don't think this is bickering really. If anything I think it's a good example of exactly the sort of fair disagreement or discussion that this thread is actually about (if, indeed, it's about anything).
1. Because it's a courtesy thing. People can say racist things without being "a racist". I mean, the opposite is true, right? Racists are capable of not spouting racist statements, it's just that they're more defined by the decision not to (and / or to justify it, and so on).

2. Do you not consider showing the racist arguments evidence? I'd consider that the stronger argument, personally. I mean, what Cloud said is effectively "you have expressed racist ideas" (arguments, instead of ideas, but same drift). Nobody's comparing the number between racists and non-racists here :p (not meant as patronising, just genuinely joking around).

3. That might be the explanation for 2, then. I consider it explained, and at this point don't want to drag the thread back a page to where it was getting snipe-y. I'll bear this in mind in future, though (especially as these are the kinds of discussions I'm often involved in).

4. That's fair; I wasn't being serious with my recommendation, I was just trying to understand what you thought the correct critique would be. I didn't expect you to, either in this thread or generally.

5. I don't think it's us that's bickering, this time at least!
 
From what i read or hear, young peoples are often under some real pressure or negative feelings online, as social media increased it's influence on daily life hugely.
Parents are required to explain why real life should be taken serious, and online should just act as hobby (unless making real money with stuff like YT).

If somebody feels digitally lynched and reacts with serious feelings, how will they handle real pressure? Not good.
That being said, i never supported systems such as "likes" or anything that makes one group feel superior for little reason.
 
That being said, i never supported systems such as "likes" or anything that makes one group feel superior for little reason.

Back then peoples in general were more focused on quality, geez these days Star wars or pointless superhero movie XIVV gets more viewers than quality does.
I suggested a couple exceptional movies here, and overall very little interest..why bother?

:think:
 
I don't mined likes. 15 likes on a clever comeback are less cruel than 15 piled on (less creative) insults. I like to occasionally note a quality post.
But I am really pleased that we don't have the option to don't like. ;)
 
I'd like an expansion of the Like system. Maybe no negative ones, like you suggest, but at least ones that provide a little more clarity behind the like. Like laughing, or thoughtful, and so on.
 
I'd like an expansion of the Like system. Maybe no negative ones, like you suggest, but at least ones that provide a little more clarity behind the like. Like laughing, or thoughtful, and so on.
Reactions would be neat. This would make it clear when someone posts something bad happened to them that you are liking in commiseration rather than as an act of meanness.
 
I don't know. I think I'd prefer the generic one since that way the interpretation is left up to the poster which will probably see it as more positive.
 
I don't know. I think I'd prefer the generic one since that way the interpretation is left up to the poster which will probably see it as more positive.
I don't think the specific form the reaction will take will change too much about how people perceive it. People will read into it what they want to read into it as they do now. If anything, having a wider toolkit than just liking will make it easier to interpret what the reacting poster meant rather than requiring imagination on behalf of the receiver.

Edit: I BEFORE E EXCEPT WHEN O38IR3YO8ER3$##%#@$# WHO FLIPPING KNOWS
 
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