Like...so take mating for example. There's the argument to be made there's a lot of people worrying, "How do I get a girlfriend," when commonly a great answer seems to be, "Go do what you love, go be a part of something amazing, build up your person and go do what it is you were destined to do, and when you're at your peak enjoying who you are, that's when you'll meet a special someone out in the field of doing what you love, that's when you will feel the most full and feel like you have the most to offer another person as a potential partner in life." So go do what you love, and build yourself up.
—Excerpt from a post by PsychopompPoet