For me I go to urgent care for stuff like fevers and flus cus it's around $120 vs who knows what the ER charges
Here, people are told not to go to the emergency rooms for the flu, unless they're really having trouble breathing. In my case, although I do have respiratory issues, I've never had the flu bad enough to require hospitalization. It's been absolutely miserable - it hits me harder and longer than most people - but I manage at home. Thankfully I haven't had many since an annual flu shot became a routine thing over a decade ago (they don't always guess right as to which strain to vaccinate against, or I get sick before the shot takes effect).
It's the same situation with colds, as well. So it's a case of keeping stuff around to get through it - warm blankets, chicken soup, fruit juice (who wants to drink water all the time when you're trying to stay hydrated?), lots of kleenex, and I use the time from the first warning symptoms to when it really hits to make sure the cats have what they need and that I've notified anyone who visits here regularly that I'm sick and they should stay away.
When cold/flu season starts, I pretty much go into hermit mode. I don't go out unless it's absolutely necessary, don't touch public door handles or elevator buttons with bare hands unless necessary, etc. There are a lot of kids in this building and they bring every damn thing home that's going around the schools. Since I didn't get most of the childhood diseases out of the way as a kid, it's sensible in my case to be paranoid about these things.
Then, and this is probably the biggest, is end of life care and procedures that may not be in the best interest of the patient like open heart surgeries and life saving procedures on people in their 80s and 90s. Drs want to do those procedures cus they bill big bucks. But patients may not always want them and get persuaded into them by the drs and their family. We spend a huge majority of our money on care for people at the end of their life. Republicans always say oh that's death panels if you want to deny granny treatment, but really we should be looking at quality of life not just extending it just cus we can. And we need to listen to what granny actually wants.
Is doctor-assisted dying legal in the U.S.?
So: Republicans call it death panels if you want to deny treatment, but we should really be denying treatment. But that's ok, because what grandma really wants is to die. Like infants with brain damage. Or fetuses with abnormalities. What they all truly want is death.
Fetuses with abnormalities are not capable of expressing a choice. They don't even know, in most cases, that they exist. For infants with brain damage, it depends on the damage, whether or not the kid has any chance of a life as a self-aware person who isn't in constant pain, and can communicate with other people.
I am my dad's legal guardian. I make his medical decisions. If I am informed that he's had a heart attack or stroke, it's my decision as to what the doctors do or don't do about it - whether to do extraordinary measures to keep him alive. I had a frank discussion about this with his doctor, who described what it would be like. My dad is 82 and a lot more fragile than he used to be, so it was decided that a DNR would be the appropriate - and compassionate - way to go.
This decision will come fairly soon, I think, probably within the next 2-3 years. His father died at age 85, and his mother died at age 86. My dad is afflicted with a combination of what killed them - COPD and dementia (actually my grandmother had Alzheimers).
I can't legally request assisted dying for my father, and because he has dementia, he's not legally allowed to request it for himself, no matter if he really wants it (one thing he expressed to me over 10 years ago, after my grandmother died, was that if he ever was in her situation, "just take me out and shoot me"). Well, of course I wouldn't do that... but it's galling that on the one hand, society would condemn me for forcing one of my cats to suffer with a terminal illness and unremitting pain/loss of quality of life, yet would condemn me for wanting to spare my father that same unremitting pain/loss of quality of life.