Misogyny is enforcement of sexism, and sexism is about power structures identifying your gender and creating barriers because of your identity. And misogyny's how that's practiced, how you're treated and limited just for being a woman. There's no such thing as a woman-controlled power system that's turning men into second class citizens, and so you can't claim there's any female-to-male equivalent for what men do to women. Men do oppress other men, but there's no such thing as men being oppressed by women.
You can think about Star Wars being an example, which really is perfect. You see Imperials killing Rebels, and you also have Rebels killing Imperials, but do you feel both acts are the same? Do you feel the Rebels destroying the Death Star is equal to the Empire destroying Alderaan? And Star Wars is perfect, because the whole thing is really a metaphor for women's liberation, and that's why you're always seeing key Rebel leaders being women, from Senator Amidala, and then Enfys Nest starting the Rebellion in Solo, and later Princess Leia and Mon Mothma, and now Rey, always women. And that's why you always see the Empire lead by white men, because it's a symbol of the evils of Patriarchy. And it's why Anakin and Luke couldn't really solve the problems, because ultimately it's going to have to be a woman (Rey).
But my point's that you, when you're an oppressed person, can do something like hating men, and yes hate is always wrong (just like killing), but it's not equal to when you're an oppressor doing so to someone under you, am I making sense?
When you talk about "misandry", you're diminishing what misogyny is, especially when you're calling a woman a misandrist when she's talking about inequality issues, you really can barely get any more sexist and misogynistic than that. You can see in this thread how some people are using misogyny to enforce sexism, because a woman's speaking out about sexist and demeaning culture.
I understand you can have difficulty understanding from growing up with only your male perspective, I don't blame you at all for that. All I ask is that you do accept what men have done to women, and please just listen to us without telling someone like myself what it's really like, because when you do so you're controlling the conversation which is a really big form of misogyny women deal with all the time. Part of patriarchy is how you have men demanding to set all the terms and rules and just force women to live by them, and if you're not willing to give up that privilege well then frankly you're contributing to furthering oppression.
When you say "misandry", you're using a word where you're trying to say it's an equivalent to misogyny, and when you do that you're being misogynist. You can criticize actions of freedom fighters, you can call them terrorists, but you can't say they're imposing martial law.
