Actually capslock, it's kind of the other way around. I respect our troops. Anyone who's willing to fight and die for his or her country is all right by me. And I want to have the best military possible, consisting of the best men and women our country has to offer. So I think that we should allow gays and lesbians to serve. After some initial problems, I think this will work out splendidly.
You on the other hand have a very unflattering view of our troops, and you seem to think of them as incurable bigots that can't behave in a professional manner. While I'm disappointed that you take that view, I disagree with it, and I hope you'll be shown up soon.
But I am curious? Why do you have such a low opinion of the professionalism and tolerance in our armed forces? Do you really think that someone who can comfortably serve with men and women of all racial, ethnic, and religious backgrounds, who serves in a force that primarily operates overseas in lands where people speak a different tongue and worship a different god, can't deal with the thought that one of their comrades might like penises instead of vaginas? I just find that mind boggling.