Paul Ryan doesn't want to repeal this?
I don't either, but I'm more libertarian minded either. I would have thought Paul Ryan, as conservative as he is, would be first in line to repeal DADT.
I think that when the policy was changed there was some reasonable question as to what effects it might have had on soldiers morale, and so the concerns about a change during wartime were valid. At the same time, this was a change that ultimately needed to happen. Being in the military should have nothing to do with your sexual orientation. Unlike gay marriage, in this case the issues literally have nothing to do with each other and so it really shouldn't be banned by any logical metric.
At the same point, mankind isn't fundamentally logical and I am no exception. Honestly, I'd be uncomfortable with people who are gays in the military. Not because I'd have a problem being with them, being friends with them, or serving with them, I'd have no issues there, but I'd honestly, and probably understandably, feel uncomfortable changing around them. And I would darn right be ticked off if a man wanted to flirt with me (I'm usually vocal enough about my Evangelicalism that it would be downright rude at that point

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On the other hand, even if I don't trust our government on a whole lot of things, a poll on "Are you comfortable with the repeal on DADT" is pretty hard to screw up. I think I trust the Pentagon when it says most people in the military aren't too uncomfortable with it, even if I personally am.
TLDR: I'm personally a bit uncomfortable with the fact, but I don't think we should go back to it, and I think the policy change to repeal DADT is appropriate, my personal discomfort with it aside. I explained specifically why I'm uncomfortable with it in the "Longer" version above.