I'm not coming across right. Which is normal, I'm sorting it out myself too.
I guess let me put it this way: a drink of water is meaningful enough that water itself is often considered sacred. After 4 hot hours of not having enough of it, water tastes like... life? I guess?
A breath of air is much the same, but you miss it differently over a different timescale. But you can replicate the gasp of it after not enough, like in the 4 hours in the sun without water thing. I do not recommend this - it's stupid and likely to get people hurt- but: if you ever knew somebody really really good at that party trick where somebody squeezes your neck just right to cut off oxygen to your brain without hurting you hurting you? And they let go right as they can tell your eyes lose focus? Two things happen - first, you lose the air you need without the suffocating fear response, second, when it all comes flooding back people will stop and ask, "What the hell was that?" Well, that's... life? I guess? Like the tall drink of water was.
Finding your tribe is sort of like that for most people. Not everybody, some people are actually loners, but even then it's not binary - there's a scale of need. And here's the takeaway I get from this tortured line of logic that gets my brain from point a) to b) on most things - Give the pansexual art students a pass. Most humans need a tribe like they need air or water, just on a slower scale. And part of their irritating arrogant exhuberance is simply... life. They had an unfulfilled need in life they may not have even totally figured out, and they just started drinking of it. It's probably easier just to think of it like we're fish, and fish are mostly water.