Narz
keeping it real
My mind goes to an ancient bazaar, a cornucopia of not only goods but also social interfacing with the community.I see no reason why me doing my voting, banking and shopping online deprives me of community. I do not make any meaningful human interactions while doing those things. I get far more meaningful human interaction online than anything I got while voting, banking and shopping in person.
Compare that to shopping on Amazon at 2am in your underpants, scrolling halfheartedly thru fake reviews of electric toothbrushes and then buying the 2nd cheapest one instead of bantering with local vendors, learning the latest gossip of your town, imbibing the mood of the village instead of checking your news feed to get a feel of how you're supposed to feel.
Not disparaging online shopping wholesale. I like the variety and not having to drive to a shop and walk around. I think Amazon is an improvement over the 1990s shopping mall.
I think the reason we jumped so readily online in the late 90s, early 2000s is because our communities were already in deep decline and the internet promised to be a more engaging and interactive alternative to TV and radio (which it still is but it's also more addictive precisely because it gives you a little bit more than those mediums but still 1000x less, from a sensory, animal perspective, than an actual 'chat room' of friends).
Voting and banking these days are pretty boring yeah, standing in line of your phone waiting to cash a check or cast a vote vs clicking a button but I imagine said experience a couple hundred years ago was more engaging, you might even decide to change your vote via a conversation in line as you might learn more in half hour of conversation than you did leading up to the election.
Milling around a typical suburb or even city your fellow citizens are fairly useless to you except maybe a select few who you may be able to do business with, become friends with or f***. Why bother talking to the man on the street about politics or how the restaurant nearby is when you can Google it without the risk of the potential awkwardness of an annoying fellow human being (or being the annoying human yourself).
And it's a vicious cycle, the more we avoid each other the more awkward we become.