There was a mouthwash post a while back linking to the alleged happiness of the Comanches that was a wake up call. In my mind it’s the opposite of the process of our civilization of which much is basically call the pornification of everything in place of doing it ourselves.
Yes, I think there's a fair amount of evolutionary mismatch between the "savagery" of the ancestral environment and domestication.
There's an angle to this that I'm not sure how to explicate exactly, which is to look at human happiness as it relates to pursuing goals. The gist of it is the cliche "it's the journey, not the destination." But there's truth to that. Dopamine is commonly said to be the "pleasure chemical", but actually the going interpretation of it these days is that it's the "goal-seeking chemical" or the "
motivational salience chemical." The impact is that to a pretty big extent, contentment itself is about making progress towards goals.
But back savagery - it seems a lot of our neural circuitry and endocrine system are innately set up to prefer pursuing goals that are directly linked to exploration, personal risk, reproduction, socializing, and accruing status in small-ish groups. For one reason or another, most of these goals we love to pursue are either lower stakes or more abstract in the modern world and that's where I think the mismatch kicks in. I'll admit this is just a science-y sounding way of saying "I think a lot of people innately like roaming around, want a sprinkling of danger, and love earning respect/status in their squads." But I'd bet it's true and neuroscience/evo psyche could fill in the gaps fairly well.
On the Comanche and on status games: status-seeking games have always been essential to the human experience and are, unsurprisingly, super dopaminergic. As a species, we're all crack addicts on this front. But everyone here is probably already convinced that things like internet
status games are pretty bizarre and dopaminergically screwy compared to, say, Comanche tribal status games. Which principally involved accumulating horses, mates, and glory in battle (covered in
Empire of the Summer Moon--which I assume is the book that inspired Mouthwash's Comanche comments). Many of us crave this kind of thing and we hear its echoes throughout our culture. See the bromance + respect + loyalty games they play in
Master and Commander as they pursue the French. Or the ball-busting + respect + loyalty games they play in
Goodfellas as they screw over "goody-goody suckers." It's the fun of being part of a dangerous, tight-knit squad where something material is actually at stake and you have to vie for respect and loyalty. But it's hard to come across in the modern world.
The last paragraph
is gendered. But that's an angle that's been latent to this thread the whole time, by my read. And maybe worth dissecting.