Farm Boy
I hope you dance
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I am not selfish enough to have kids just for the sake of having that experience - if I don't think the environment is well suited for child rearing and such.
Here's the thing. I totes agree with you on the education situation. It sucks. But I'm at a loss for what you would actually consider an environment well suited for child rearing and such. Medicine has never been better. Starvation and malnutrition are bouncing around about as low as we've ever seen or dared to dream of in Canada and the USA. Violent crime rates are relatively low, and falling. Average education achieved, even if at high cost, is historically high. Women have better career opportunities than they used to, better wages than they used to, better benefits than they used to, and getting better at all three. Homosexual people can marry instead of being denied the right.
Given the big bag of things that matter for your child when you have a child, rather than simply having the experience, I have no idea what standard would ever actually hold up! Perfection? Simply this singular issue being better? Sounds like you might need to find a nice Dutch girl(or boy, two father adoptive households seem to hold water just fine) at some point in your life if you ever become interested in such a process!