Social Evolution

If you have $35,000 to give to someone in exchange for something, you can find a million better things to than compel them to be a gas attendant. Why is forcing gas attendants a better system than spending that on anything else?
It's not about it being "better". Its just cheaper/easier/ more straightforward to implement. Planting community gardens, working out, creating art, childcare, for example all would require more investment, training and resources. Banning self-serve, thus requiring gas stations to hire attendants requires no investment. The pumps are already there, the labor is already there, needing "low skill" jobs.
 
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Young people, or those just entering the workforce, or those looking for part time or casual, work do need jobs that teach them about work, about money and about working with other people. Those jobs should not be expected to be ones of grand ambition or long term promise, or even be ones that support more than a minimal contribution to a basic lifestyle.
There are also people who just really need a job and for whatever one or more, of a myriad possible reasons, do not yet have and/or cannot obtain the necessary qualifications, credentials or experience to get a job other than a "low skill" job. There are lots of people like that, and its worthwhile to create opportunities for them to be able to easily enter and/or remain in the workforce, rather then pushing them out by automating/self-serve'ing everything.
 
I think that believing other people's work is in some sense not real is highly correlated for contempt for the person doing that job.
That's nonsensical. And it's not about it being "not real", it's about it "not adding enough value to justify the existence of the job".
For example, in my post I singled out torturers and secret policemen because I have contempt for that kind of work and for the people who do it.
That's a terrible comparison, because these jobs are viewed badly not because they are seen as useless but because they are seen as morally dubious. There is no moral quandary about doing something useless for money. There is serious ones about doing something evil for money.
In the US we have a long history of degrading labor while also degrading the people who do it, slavery being the prime example but also extending to forms of work traditionally done by women such as child-rearing. The kinds of societies where necessary work is held in contempt are also the societies that tend to treat the workers doing that work as less than human.
Maybe, but that's just you projecting here.

I did some jobs I found terrible (due to being utterly boring/hard to endure/pointless), and I don't feel ashamed of doing them, nor do I see people doing them as inferior.
 
Maybe, but that's just you projecting here.

I did some jobs I found terrible (due to being utterly boring/hard to endure/pointless), and I don't feel ashamed of doing them, nor do I see people doing them as inferior.

Okay, that's fine, but I don't believe I ever accused you of being contmptuous of anyone. Given the poster I was actually talking to/about, I do not believe it is projection and I submit to you that you are ignorant of necessary and specific context here. For more info, go read the lying flatism thread.

I also think from the wording of this post that you perhaps are not fully understanding my point here. I will see if I can reword for more clarity but don't have time at the moment.
 
And it's not about it being "not real", it's about it "not adding enough value to justify the existence of the job".

But for 99.9% of people they don't need or want the help, it's just annoying & then you feel pressured to tip the poor bastard.
A law for having someone on hand to help the disabled, all good. Not allowing adults to pump their own gas to boost the economy is just dumb.
Something else, besides @Valka D'Ur 's point about the usefulness of gas station attendants... I can remember numerous occasions in New Jersey when I would pull up to the gas station in sub-freezing temps with frigid breezes going and thank my lucky stars that it was full-service gas. It is freaking awesome to be able to stay in your warm car, (and to a lesser degree your air conditioned car of those 90 degree days) instead of having to get out to pump your own gas. Sure, its less awesome to be the attendant out there freezing your a** off, but you certainly aren't "useless".

Also, @Lexicus is right, folks generally don't tip the gas station attendants in New Jersey and they don't expect to be tipped.
 
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By the way, once the smoke clears on the question regarding on whose initiative the plans for invading Iran were developed (Trump's), it's going to sink in to everyone around the world, that the US President can ask for a plan of attack against any nation and the US Military will obediently draft that right up. Now, on some level, everybody already knows that is true. He's commander in chief; they're required to do his bidding. But this is going to make it feel way more concrete. And we're going to lose standing in the world that it was actually done once, at the insistence of this irresponsible clown.

Way more concrete? Anyone can go on the internet nowadays and look up the awful stuff we've done like MK-Ultra, the planned false flag terror attack that the CIA wanted to do to frame Fidel Castro and push for an invasion of Cuba, the Malay Massacre, etc.

Who are we trying to protect our reputation from these days in such an open world? Africans who still don't have the internet? Their leaders do at least!

Look there's nothing to hide especially if it's already well known that this is how the office of commander in chief works. Iran has been a target of the Pentagon for years anyhow, going back to Reagan.
 
Anyway consider that maybe I simply grew up in a state where I never pumped my own gas, and thereby never got the muscle memory to effortlessly handle the process of doing so.
You should get the muscle memory by the 2nd time you do it.
Hey, remember in the lying flat thread, when you came in hot with insults that people who weren't #hustling were "pro-surrender" or whatever?
I'm not pro-hustle, that's wack too, burning yourself out for some movement or company is dumb but lying flat is defeatist, imo. I'm minimalist & lazy but I hate being a victim & I like being in control (not living in someone else's house, etc).
Something contemptuous
I'm a contemptuous person also. I suspect I agree on 90+% of important things with those who I bicker with but the 10% are important. And like you said on the internet it's easy to be a dick which I'm not proud of. I try to stop but then someone says something snarky and... well you know how it goes.
Also, the gas in New Jersey, despite being full-service, is sometimes cheaper than in neighboring self-serve states.
I think this has more to do with taxes, not 100% sure
Same, though I was delivering Jimmy John's, not pizza. And I did it on a bicycle!
That's cool. I used to be a bike messenger when I was 20. It was pretty dumb but a nice rush. That definitely made me feel like I was earning my money but was draining as well.
 
On the war plans: the USA has had for over a century now prepared contingency plans for even unlikely scenarios, such as Plan Red-Orange, where the Anglo-Japanese alliance strikes at the USA.

That the USA and its executive leadership have plans is no surprise, and even the drafting of unlikely plans is itself an exercise that can help us learn. If I know that then I suspect Teheran knows it too.
 
A law for having someone on hand to help the disabled, all good. Not allowing adults to pump their own gas to boost the economy is just dumb.

At what point do they count the number of disabled drivers using their station, decide it's not enough to justify paying someone to help them, and so the ones who do go there and need the service don't get it anymore?

This inability to recognize that a service is essential for the people with no other option is why there's no Greyhound service here anymore, and we lost our train service many years before that. I am stuck in Red Deer because I have no way to go anywhere else, unless it's a medical situation AND I can get extra funding to pay someone from the seniors' centre to take me.

So the ballyhoo of bus service between Calgary and Banff-Lake Louise or a couple of the other mountain lakes does me no good at all if I can't get to Calgary (a day trip like that would boost my mental health immensely; it's been 19 YEARS since I was last in the Rockies).

I think that believing other people's work is in some sense not real is highly correlated for contempt for the person doing that job.

Hm. I'm reminded of something my then-boyfriend said regarding my home typing business: "_____, when are you going to get a REAL job?"

I was shocked, and the other friend I was with nearly slapped him. She said, "EXCUSE me?"

So I explained why it's a REAL job. During the busy times of year, a short day for me was about 12 hours. It would sometimes get to the point where I'd be up and awake for 30 hours straight, typing term papers, essays, resumes, and anything else people needed (did some pharmacy and chemistry papers as well, and my knowledge of chemical symbols and Greek letters came in handy for the things done on a typewriter, as I wrote them in by hand in black pen). Then I'd crash for as many hours as I could (took time for food, bathroom, and my soap opera), then get up and do it all over again. There were times in the winter when I'd go outside and shovel snow at 3 am just to wake up a bit.

Tell me that's not a real job. I put in as many hours/day as other people, but most of my hours were late afternoon through to next morning.

When my boyfriend figured that if I could do it, so could he. After all, if I could do it, how hard could it be?

Well, he gave up inside a month. It requires more than just the ability to type. When you're dealing with college and university students, it also takes some people skills and the ability to calm them down when they're frantic about their assignments. I got a lot of my clients because their friends who had gone to me first told them that unlike other typists who might be a little cheaper, I actually cared if they did well on their assignments. There were some classes they were taking that I'd already taken, so I could pass on a bit of advice now and then either about the assignment or in how to deal with the instructor (otoh, one of them did a classical history assignment that was so interesting that I decided to take the course myself - and had a blast when it turned out that the instructor had a way of making Roman history FUN).

You also need to be able to do a bit of gentle hustling. In one case a regular client was in tears and said she wouldn't be able to finish her anthropology paper because she couldn't find enough sources. I asked her what her topic was, and then told her that I'd done that same assignment myself and ran into the same problem. But I'd fixed that problem for myself by going out and buying stuff - books, magazine articles, etc. to use... and said I'd be willing to lend her my books so she could finish the paper (I really didn't want to miss out on what I'd make on a term paper of that length).

She was flabbergasted that I'd offer, and when I told her I was serious, she accepted. I wouldn't have made that offer to most of the clients, but there were some I'd trust that far (one character witness being my cat, Lightning, who adored her). She picked up the materials, wrote the paper, I typed it, she returned the materials, I got paid, she got a decent grade, and it was a win-win. When she moved on to university she mailed me her papers to type, rather than using someone local.
 
Btw there are also people (disabled, elderly etc) who cannot pump their own gas and New Jersey (also Oregon, fyi) system of having attendants pump all the gas is much better for those folks, since in pump-your-own-gas states it is typically quite a hassle to get an attendant out to pump your gas for you.
It’s one thing to have a choice to either have an attendant or pump your own gas. It’s another to have laws barring self-service. I’d likely only use an attendant service if temperatures reaches below 40°F.

If you aren't a secret policeman or a torturer then your work is valid and there is dignity and honor in it, and the problem with it is probably that you are not paid what you're worth or treated with the dignity and respect you deserve.
Before landing a job as a machinist, I felt that my work shoving shopping carts and dealing with cranky customers, and horse💩 from managers at Home Depot is not valid nor was their any dignity and honor in it. In fact it felt degrading that I was doing a job I would have done when I was still in high school or college (it was a part time minimum wage job without benifits), not something for a 30-something for seven years. The only thing that got me through the day were friendly and sympathetic co-workers and customers. I finally had had enough when I had a fight with the manager on duty who reassigned me to lot duty perminately because he believed the person kissing his butt that “I wasn’t pulling my weight and thought I’d be ‘fair’ to put me in the lot” and accused me of listening to my music all day. I ended up pulling myself up by my bootstraps (I was already getting frustrated at not getting bites on getting a better job for 13 years) and applied for a machinist position and I was very fortunate not only be offered the position but also go through the manufacturing pipeline that’s hosted by the state to learn the trade (the condition for the job offer was to pass the machinist classes and I was already motivated to escape retail hell). If you ask me if my current job (machinist) is valid, and has dignity and honor in it. I would enthusiastically say yes since I’m working full time, rebuilding my life that was shattered by the Great Recession, have benefits, and a Union that would have my back if any managers and/or supervisors try to pull the same horse💩 the managers at Home Depot did.
It wasn't "romantic"... it was work... and I was enriched and empowered by it. I'd like to think I am doing "better" now, but that's part of the point... "now" is the future compared to back then. Most people can't and don't start off their working lives with some utopian dream job, living their best life... Most people just need a job, any job... to get themselves started out. Then they can try to work their way up to stuff they may find more fulfilling or whatever, gradually.
It’s one thing if it’s on the short term. It’s another if you’re stuck with it long term where it becomes degrading, depressing, and soul crushing. Especially if you’re not getting any bites on your job application for a better paying job and your life’s goals fades away as time passes by (With Home Depot, it’s impossible to work your way up unless the manager likes you or have a liking for kissing the manager’s butt). I don’t see how being treated like 💩 can enrich someone. The only empowerment I’ve ever gotten was the motivation to get out of that crappy job by any means necessary. Even if it meant learning a skilled trade (which I was fortunate to take advantage of when I was offered my current job). It’s only now that I feel enriched and empowered in my current job is because I’m paid and treated well. If I had a chance to do my education over again, I would have gone to a local community college to learn a trade to avoid spending my 20s and 30s in retail hell with a useless college degree.
 
and horse[doody] from managers at Home Depot is not valid nor was their any dignity and honor in it.
But the job of retail sales should have dignity to it, and to you. There’s nothing inherently degrading in it, it’s a bad company, bad management, bad labor conditions. But the occupation itself deserves as much respect as the people doing it.
 
It’s one thing if it’s on the short term. It’s another if you’re stuck with it long term where it becomes degrading, depressing, and soul crushing. Especially if you’re not getting any bites on your job application for a better paying job and your life’s goals fades away as time passes by (With Home Depot, it’s impossible to work your way up unless the manager likes you or have a liking for kissing the manager’s butt). I don’t see how being treated like 💩 can enrich someone. The only empowerment I’ve ever gotten was the motivation to get out of that crappy job by any means necessary. Even if it meant learning a skilled trade (which I was fortunate to take advantage of when I was offered my current job). It’s only now that I feel enriched and empowered in my current job is because I’m paid and treated well. If I had a chance to do my education over again, I would have gone to a local community college to learn a trade to avoid spending my 20s and 30s in retail hell with a useless college degree.
I don't see a whole lot of conflict between what you are saying and what I've already said.
 
I think this has more to do with taxes, not 100% sure
The taxes in NJ are pretty high compared to other states, even neighboring states, so I guess you could interpret that either way...but if that's a cause of it then that just proves the point doesn't it?

I'll also mention that having attendants pump the gas reduces pump maintenance costs, because you don't have to keep the pumps looking nice ie repairing screens lcd displays, commercial monitors, handle grips, etc., if they are only being used by attendants. If only employees are using the pumps, you can delay/forego most superficial maintenance and let them get decrepit... then rely on staff to know that "Oh pump three is a little finnicky, you have to jiggle the thingy" or "Oh yeah that display screen is crushed, you just have to eyeball it or yell to the guy in the booth for a reading..." With self-serve pumps, the owner always has to keep things relatively updated, which costs more.
 
I'll also mention that having attendants pump the gas reduces pump maintenance costs, because you don't have to keep the pumps looking nice ie repairing screens lcd displays, commercial monitors, handle grips, etc., if they are only being used by attendants. If only employees are using the pumps, you can delay/forego most superficial maintenance and let them get decrepit... then rely on staff to know that "Oh pump three is a little finnicky, you have to jiggle the thingy" or "Oh yeah that display screen is crushed, you just have to eyeball it or yell to the guy in the booth for a reading..." With self-serve pumps, the owner always has to keep things relatively updated, which costs more.

But not as much as paying the employees, otherwise we would not see that many self-service pumps where it is legal.
 
But the job of retail sales should have dignity to it, and to you. There’s nothing inherently degrading in it, it’s a bad company, bad management, bad labor conditions. But the occupation itself deserves as much respect as the people doing it.
Ideally they should. But they’re not meant to be a career. It’s a reason why they have a high turnover rate. Before I quit my last job, I encouraged my other coworkers who are disgruntled to look into jobs where I got hired at and look into the pipeline program to pick up a skilled trade.
I don't see a whole lot of conflict between what you are saying and what I've already said.
The issue that I have is referring to low skilled part time jobs as “valid, dignity, honor, enrichment, and empowerment” when they’re in reality degrading, depressive, and soul crushing. When you’re perpetually underemployed in a part time minimum wage job for a decade, you see things differently.
 
The issue that I have is referring to low skilled part time jobs as “valid, dignity, honor, enrichment, and empowerment” when they’re in reality degrading, depressive, and soul crushing. When you’re perpetually underemployed in a part time minimum wage job for a decade, you see things differently.
I think the problem here (and correct me if I'm wrong), is that the degradation, soul-crushingness, and so on, comes from the material conditions surrounding the job. It doesn't have to come from the job itself.

Let's take another field as an example. Games development is an industry run by people trying to rack up the most profit on the smallest investments ever. Despite this, there are tons of people that work in that industry for the betterment of their peers, and the games they create. They are, on average, underpaid compared to software. They work longer hours. They suffer crunch. Turnover is high.

Very little of this has to be. It is a choice made by the people extracting the value (the money) from this system, at cost to the people actually making the games, and the consumers buying them. The same goes for "low skill" jobs.
 
I think the problem here (and correct me if I'm wrong), is that the degradation, soul-crushingness, and so on, comes from the material conditions surrounding the job. It doesn't have to come from the job itself.

Let's take another field as an example. Games development is an industry run by people trying to rack up the most profit on the smallest investments ever. Despite this, there are tons of people that work in that industry for the betterment of their peers, and the games they create. They are, on average, underpaid compared to software. They work longer hours. They suffer crunch. Turnover is high.

Very little of this has to be. It is a choice made by the people extracting the value (the money) from this system, at cost to the people actually making the games, and the consumers buying them. The same goes for "low skill" jobs.
The game "The Long Dark" makes a specific point of opening with a disclaimer/startup-message that it is "Made without crunch by people who care about players at a studio that cares about people".

As annoying as opening screens usually are, because I just want to get to the game... this is one opening message that actually feels nice and I don't mind seeing every time I start the game.
 
I think the problem here (and correct me if I'm wrong), is that the degradation, soul-crushingness, and so on, comes from the material conditions surrounding the job. It doesn't have to come from the job itself.

Let's take another field as an example. Games development is an industry run by people trying to rack up the most profit on the smallest investments ever. Despite this, there are tons of people that work in that industry for the betterment of their peers, and the games they create. They are, on average, underpaid compared to software. They work longer hours. They suffer crunch. Turnover is high.

Very little of this has to be. It is a choice made by the people extracting the value (the money) from this system, at cost to the people actually making the games, and the consumers buying them. The same goes for "low skill" jobs.

I wouldn't say it's exactly always the boss. Like @GenMarshall said it's also the customers, and sometimes (especially if it's retail or food service) you have to deal with that every day.

As a matter of fact I worked food service and I'd argue that the customers are actually far FAR worse than the managers. I mean you can get ****head managers for sure but oftentimes their complaints are stupid, and you can easily ignore them when they aren't looking, half the other time they seem checked out or don't care.

Customers on the other hand you can't escape it's simply the job, and honestly most of the public sees these kind of jobs as subhuman labor. So they treat you accordingly, as though you are (well I'll say near subhuman, the public treats the homeless far worse to be honest).
 
But not as much as paying the employees, otherwise we would not see that many self-service pumps where it is legal.
You're missing something here. Part of why you don't see many full-serve pumps where self-serve is legal goes back to what @RobAnybody said... if he has a choice as a consumer, he's picking self-serve. So its not correct to say that the fact that most gas stations are self serve is because its cheaper to be self-serve versus full-service. Its not necessarily cheaper to be self-serve, but in an environment where other gas stations are self-serve, you have pressure to be self-serve as well, or else you lose business to the self-serve stations. In a system where self-serve is not allowed, its possibly cheaper to be full-service. Again, New Jersey seems to prove this.
 
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