No, it isn't on topic. And to say we have more problems reporting rape could only be partially true at best. If someone is murdered in a dark alley or somewhere and nobody saw who killed them, what are there odds at being caught? Yes you can report the person has gone missing, but that's about it. With rape, at least if the victim is still alive, they can identify the rapist, as happened with Brock Turner, even with Brock Turner being a good ol' boy there was still a chance for justice to be served, and it did in this case.
Anyway: Explain this: There are tons of movies, video games, books, etc that depict murders. Tons of media "action movies" where people die and get murdered all the time. But a rape is considered 100 times more disturbing.
No, we are not more comfortable with rape than we are with murder, no matter how many times some people (such as yourself) say otherwise. I could go on and write one of my big walls of text for several paragraphs explaining how cynical and indifferent we are to murder than we are to rape. I could mention all the mass shootings going on in this country and so many people saying they're 'zoned out' of feeling anything about it at this point. But i'll leave it at that, and hope you understand.
Rape does not "affect the victim the most" (as in, opposed to murder) because the victim is still alive. Like I said before, most victims recover at least to some degree, and go on to lead meaningful, successful lives. And you'd be insulting them and putting words into their mouths to say otherwise. And even if they're one of the exceptions where they can't go on, they can at least put their affairs in order and end their lives on their own terms. Murder victims don't get that.
Based on the statistics I read the majority of rape victims quit having PTSD 365 days after the rape occurred, with the percentage continuing to dwindle after the original year. But even if they continued having PTSD their entire lives, it still wouldn't be the same thing as murder.
I know soldier with PTSD that say "thank God I'm still alive" and I've known rape victims who say the same. In any case I'm reporting both my own post (this one) as well as yours. This is horribly off topic.
Rape is factually underreported, making up situations where hidden dead bodies are never found only helps skew the flawed perceptions I was trying to dismiss. A similar made-up analogy would be a rape that was never discovered by a third-party and thus reported on, except that that happens a lot due to the prevalent excuses offered for rape ("they were drunk", "they were just having fun", "you can't change your mind after you've said yes", etc, et al).
I never said anything about people being more comfortable with one than the other, and video games being linked to murder rates (and also attempted homicides) has been repeatedly disproven more times than I care to count, sorry. I'd presume the correlation to all media is similar, but I haven't read studies on it as I have for video games.
Mass shootings are a problem. Rape culture is also a problem. The existence of one does not devalue or dismiss the other - this was precisely the point of my post. But this goes
both ways.
Rape affects the victim the most
in context of the crime. The entire spiel of my post was to not compare the crimes against each other. In the event of a murder, the suffering goes to those affected that are still alive. In the event of a rape, the suffering goes to the victim and not really elsewhere.
People are undoubtably are thankfuly they're alive, it's a baseline human reaction to any violent event. I've had a knife pulled on me before, I'm still thankful I'm alive. That doesn't mean much, because humans in general trend to being thankful for the things they still possess (note:
tend to. Psychology is of course nowhere near that simple, and your generalisations and anecdotal evidence don't help stereotypes in the slightest). I know rape victims. Anecdotal evidence does not a statistical baseline make.
I mean, to tie this back to the main topic in a more cohesive manner, people were lamenting the length of Brock Turner's incarceration (or potential incarceration) by saying "but look at murderers who get less, why should he get more". This in of itself is a red herring, and I'm surprised people are still going to lengths to try and dismiss this horrific event to continue that kind of logic. I got involved specifically on the rape vs. murder angle myself, but it arose because of the aforementioned attempt at diverting the discussion onto something
worse to make the original crime, and / or the punishment thereof, more lenient. Intentionally, by comparison.
Do some crimes need to carry more weight than others? Absolutely. But in terms of impact to the victim and the people around them, these two crimes can't be compared on a similar scale to each other. Will this end up as different prison sentences? Yes, but that's what law experts are for. For us, here in this thread, all we can do is debate the morality and ethics according to our own compasses, and that's what I was attempting to talk about (in very reasonable terms, I thought) with my bit. Certainly, you don't have the moral authority to reject my statements in any absolute manner, and it speaks more of your views that you would prefer to tear down rape victims by comparison to murder, accuse people who debate it of devaluing the crime of murder, and all you do to back up your own statements is provide anecdotal evidence. That's a bit absurd, sorry.