The Rise of the Practical Hedonists

Then I'd say that "success" was never a reality. Many baby boomers managed affluence. Rather less had recognition and popularity. Those that did, I really doubt they achieved it through being workhorse alone.

I don't think the workhorse ethic is offering less tangible rewards. I think you're overestimating what rewards you could get in the past. And I don't think knowing the right people was less important for right opportunities. It probably was more - you didn't have the internet back then, so all of your opportunities had to come from someone you knew! In any case, you don't really need "opportunities", any more than job offers you can find every week. Unless what you want is not middle class delayed gratification in the sense of affluence.

I'm not sure why, but your reply doesn't seem to indicate that we're on the same page. You seem insistent on keeping affluence, popularity and recognition distinct as metrics for success when my contention is that they have become less distinct today. So I guess we'll just have to leave the conversation at that and not shoot each other over it, as befits good liberals.

Maybe that's why the older generations and the young can't understand each other's way of looking at the world. There's just some kind of epistemological barrier that may be the result of having radically different experiences.

You are, and you are not. My take on it is that what is happening is that there are fewer "workhorses" needed. Most of the top positions were usually dominated already by those people who "networked", it depends on the era and place, but it is a new phenomenon.
What is new, at least compared with the 20th century dominated by industry and mass production, is the rise of services as the main "industry". The most useful people for some of those jobs are not necessarily "workhorses". Which has opened an opportunity for middle-class individuals to be "successful" without having to be the typical old workhorse bred for industry. And this changed the culture of the middle class, such that it is now heterogeneous, that both kinds of behavior (the hedonist, as you called it (and I could think of less charitable adjectives), and the "workhorse", are deemed acceptable. And the hedonist is more attractive, both because it seems more fun, and because in many places there are few jobs for "workhorses" any longer.

This leads to the discussion about what a job is supposed to be, how can jobs be provided for most of the population (assuming the continuation of the capitalist economic system), and what to do about rising unemployment...

You could be right about that. But given the prevailing circumstances, the best you can do as an individual is to live according to exigencies of the age. Idealists still have to negotiate with the realities they face, and those seem to favour moving away from the old work ethic that no longer holds as much certainty.
 
I read it :rolleyes: and all you did was say social skills are becoming more important to advancing in business

how do social skills = hedonism?

and I'd say this "rise of hedonism" is a good thing, with more opportunities for economic mobility social skills become more important.
 
I read it :rolleyes: and all you did was say social skills are becoming more important to advancing in business

how do social skills = hedonism?

I don't know how you missed it :confused:

I'm not even sure if they can still promise you that these days. As I said, I think they are becoming superseded. These days people talk about the importance of networking, of working smart and knowing the right people. And an effective way of networking is to make sure everyone is enjoying it. And for that, you must know how to have fun.

Few people like to hang around a boring dude who only knows how to sit down and do some work. People want to hang out with fun and interesting people, people whom they enjoy hanging out with.

I've also pointed out that I'm not taking hedonists to mean people who seek pleasure merely as an end it itself, which is actually kinda obvious in the OP if you're not simply seizing on keywords that leaps at your assumptions.
 
yeah I read all that, and it still sounds like you've confused hedonism with social skills people need and use to get ahead. Its like calling golf "hedonism" because business people play it to have "fun" while seeking advancement in the company...

as for the rest, thats just human nature - boring people are...boring. Not wanting to be around them aint hedonism.
 
I haven't "confused" them. I've simply defined hedonism for the purposes of this thread in a certain way. And if you really don't see the connections as I've quite clearly made them, then there's no use discussing this with you - it's not as if you've bothered to try and see where I'm coming from (instead you've equated networking with simply playing golf to seek advancement). And going by past records, I'm not going to bother trying to make you see it :dunno:
 
You could be right about that. But given the prevailing circumstances, the best you can do as an individual is to live according to exigencies of the age. Idealists still have to negotiate with the realities they face, and those seem to favour moving away from the old work ethic that no longer holds as much certainty.

And you are right about that. You can't imagine how much I'm been thinking about it myself, lately. Suffice to say, I'm so averse to (internet-based) social networking that I don't even have any "presence" on the internet by my own name. Nor do I approve of the modern work ethic, or lack thereof. But I know that it's self-limiting at this point.

It is hard to change our own personality, isn't it? And I'm not even an "old dog" yet. But it feels like, I don't know, conceding defeat, to the world.
Don't adapt, and you're defeated. Adapt, and your first step must be to concede defeat and embrace the need to adapt! It's sad, infuriating, and funny. But those are the only choices. I'm afraid that changing the world is not in the cards for most of us. There doesn't seem to be a smiley for "sad smile" here...
 
I'm not even sure if they can still promise you that these days. As I said, I think they are becoming superseded. These days people talk about the importance of networking, of working smart and knowing the right people. And an effective way of networking is to make sure everyone is enjoying it. And for that, you must know how to have fun.

Networking has been a factor in career advancement since the beginning of recorded history. You're just beginning to realize it.
 
Mind telling me what those hundreds of millions in Asia were doing before being employed?
Oh, right, they were already employed doing something else. Even if it was just farming.

Yes, they were employed, but does that change the picture?

When you were working in extremely low productivity jobs, earning a pittance that barely fed your family, being employed doesn't give you a better life than the unemployed Americans. "Net unemployment" is a red herring if it does not count the quality of the job. The fact is that productivity of Asia had skyrocketed; new, better jobs were created to replace the old, inefficient ones. That's where your lost American jobs went.


Net unemployment has risen, has been rising for years. The issue is not what kind of employment those who are employed have, if it's better or worse that they had a few years before. The issue is whether people must have a job or not, and if they do how do you make it so that there are always enough jobs for everyone. As mechanization progresses (and technology will continue to progress) people move to "services". What is being done is, in effect, to create a class of servants. Who mostly sell their services to people on the same class. If you can commercialize more and more of what makes up day-to-day live, you can keep up this system. But you're keeping up a fiction, because many of those services could easily be performed for free, were once performed for free, they're being commercialized only because... doing so "creates jobs" and grows the GDP statistics. Not to mention the plain unnecessary services. And there I'm not even talking just of paper-pushing bureaucracy, I'm talking about "intellectual property" and its commercialization, the ever-growing advertisement "industry" (the most ridiculous subfeature of which is that of people paid to see advertisements), all the finance and logistics associated with loans and fees from the recently very much expanded (and now very much broke) "project finance", care for children, for elderly, etc.

We've been professionalizing and commercializing elements of daily life in order to create new jobs. I'm sure you'll say "but that's a good thing, it offers people more choices". And it is so. But even that has a limit, especially when the very same people who consume those services are the ones also selling them: the market will be saturated before it can provide enough jobs.

And then there's the more important question: if jobs are taken up because of economic necessity, an unpleasant thing to do for money, then the portion of the day each of these people spends in the role of "servant" in unpleasant. And the portion they spend as "consumer" is pleasant. But isn't it weird, a system which in turns punishes and rewards the same person, each day?

The idea of "servants" is rather strange. You said it yourself that they serve "people on the same class". By that definition wouldn't anyone working under communism be a servant? Would being a servant be a bad thing then? And that "many of those services could easily be performed for free, were once performed for free" is just wrong. Services take time and labour too. Why should it be free? Indeed when was it ever free? You don't go into a service job because you want to create a job or grow the GDP statistics. You go because someone wants to pay for it. They pay because your service is valuable. If you cook a meal, give a massage, drive a taxi, write a prescription, teach a kid, or move goods from the docks to a warehouse to a shop, you create value. Even the advertisement industry subsidises TV channels, newspapers, and websites so the latters can create value.

We've not been commercializing elements of daily life. Most of the service industry existed for thousands of years. And people paid for them. Or if you can't afford, you get by without a massage, or cook the meal yourself, or get your kid to send a letter. You never, ever could just get anyone to do those services for you for free. Rich countries have a bigger sector because everyone is eating out these days. People enjoy using services, which gives them a better quality of life. Is there a limit in that? Probably, you are not going to eat more than you physically can. But 76.9% of the American economy is already service. Does that percentage need growing? But if that limit exists, it is not because "the very same people who consume those services are the ones also selling them". The people who write prescriptions are not usually the people who teach kids. Each of us offer a different service, and we trade those services so all of us could enjoy them. What is wrong or unsustainable about that?

And the "in turns punishes and rewards the same person" part is even more weird. Should you be able to consume without giving something back?



I'm not sure why, but your reply doesn't seem to indicate that we're on the same page. You seem insistent on keeping affluence, popularity and recognition distinct as metrics for success when my contention is that they have become less distinct today. So I guess we'll just have to leave the conversation at that and not shoot each other over it, as befits good liberals.

What I'm saying is that your definition of success is not what the workhorse ethic was supposed to get you. That is, it's not that the workhorse sense of success changed to rely more on social skills. It's that the social skills kind of success was an entirely different thing from the beginning. Your metric of success required just as much social skills in the Gilded Age. And hardworking can still get you a reasonable income. I can't see anything that has changed.


I don't know how you missed it :confused:

I've also pointed out that I'm not taking hedonists to mean people who seek pleasure merely as an end it itself, which is actually kinda obvious in the OP if you're not simply seizing on keywords that leaps at your assumptions.

You're using the word in a way different from how people usually understand it. It's not really obvious what you meant, given that you didn't actually refer to the word and clarify what you meant.
 
It is hard to change our own personality, isn't it? And I'm not even an "old dog" yet. But it feels like, I don't know, conceding defeat, to the world.
Don't adapt, and you're defeated. Adapt, and your first step must be to concede defeat and embrace the need to adapt! It's sad, infuriating, and funny. But those are the only choices. I'm afraid that changing the world is not in the cards for most of us. There doesn't seem to be a smiley for "sad smile" here...

Well, when I was younger I used to think that being good at what you do is enough. That's what I was taught. You only need to seek relationships with the faithful, not the vulgar people out there, according the particular conservative Christian tradition I'm familiar with.

But, yes, it might not be enough.

Networking has been a factor in career advancement since the beginning of recorded history. You're just beginning to realize it.

I think there's been a shift that has raised its importance. It was a factor all along, yes, but I think it's more important now that it was for most people of the past generations.

What I'm saying is that your definition of success is not what the workhorse ethic was supposed to get you. That is, it's not that the workhorse sense of success changed to rely more on social skills. It's that the social skills kind of success was an entirely different thing from the beginning. Your metric of success required just as much social skills in the Gilded Age. And hardworking can still get you a reasonable income. I can't see anything that has changed.

And what I'm saying is that the weight of popular perception of success has shifted such that social skills have become regarded as more important for achieving success. And this is partly in response to greater uncertainty and other trends in the economic sphere.

Alassius said:
You're using the word in a way different from how people usually understand it. It's not really obvious what you meant, given that you didn't actually refer to the word and clarify what you meant.

I didn't use the word in the OP precisely because I didn't want to make a big deal of it. It's not the point. It's just a concise description for the title that befits the significance with which I perceive this cultural shift.
 
I haven't "confused" them. I've simply defined hedonism for the purposes of this thread in a certain way. And if you really don't see the connections as I've quite clearly made them, then there's no use discussing this with you - it's not as if you've bothered to try and see where I'm coming from (instead you've equated networking with simply playing golf to seek advancement). And going by past records, I'm not going to bother trying to make you see it :dunno:

Business people playing golf in pursuit of career goals was an example of having fun "networking" - which seemed to be how you were defining hedonism. Would that example qualify as your "hedonism" or not? Other people have pointed out the ambiguity of your "definition", dont blame that on me with some bs about past records.

Well, when I was younger I used to think that being good at what you do is enough. That's what I was taught. You only need to seek relationships with the faithful, not the vulgar people out there, according the particular conservative Christian tradition I'm familiar with.

Before you called them fun people to be around, now they're vulgar non-conservative Christians? Social skills are something to be good at, true? Even more valuable in a modern economy?

I think there's been a shift that has raised its importance. It was a factor all along, yes, but I think it's more important now that it was for most people of the past generations.

Modern societies have more economic opportunity and mobility. Thats a good thing...

And what I'm saying is that the weight of popular perception of success has shifted such that social skills have become regarded as more important for achieving success. And this is partly in response to greater uncertainty and other trends in the economic sphere.

"Sales" and management are much more important as competition increases, social skills will become even more valued by people trying to sell stuff.

I didn't use the word in the OP precisely because I didn't want to make a big deal of it. It's not the point. It's just a concise description for the title that befits the significance with which I perceive this cultural shift.

its a loaded term and it aint concise, you make it sound like we've (not you of course ;)) become hedonists because the growing importance of social skills have helped free more people from "hard work". Do past records show I shouldn't expect a response?
 
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I think there's been a shift that has raised its importance. It was a factor all along, yes, but I think it's more important now that it was for most people of the past generations.

It is more accurate to say that recent generations have denied its existence, but it still existed as much as before. It is much the same claim you will get from certain elders that claim that sex wasn't as promiscuous and widespread as in their time, when it is far more likely that it was just as prevalent, but more discreet, and so, they knew nothing about it.

I have seen all too many people who got their jobs and kept them clearly only because of who they knew, not what they know, and this includes the older generation as much as the present. What you may be witnessing is simply the veneer washing off, and people ceasing to contrive skill they don't have. You also have to keep in mind that people will play up their false skills in front of the boss, and not necessarily anyone else.
 
Before you called them fun people to be around, now they're vulgar non-conservative Christians? Social skills are something to be good at, true? Even more valuable in a modern economy?

Berzerker said:
Do past records show I shouldn't expect a response?

You seem to have this capacity for completely misreading context, meaning and intent, so yeah.

It is more accurate to say that recent generations have denied its existence, but it still existed as much as before. It is much the same claim you will get from certain elders that claim that sex wasn't as promiscuous and widespread as in their time, when it is far more likely that it was just as prevalent, but more discreet, and so, they knew nothing about it.

I have seen all too many people who got their jobs and kept them clearly only because of who they knew, not what they know, and this includes the older generation as much as the present. What you may be witnessing is simply the veneer washing off, and people ceasing to contrive skill they don't have. You also have to keep in mind that people will play up their false skills in front of the boss, and not necessarily anyone else.

I don't think recent generations denied its existence before. I don't think it's simply a case of veneer washing off either. It's not the same as the issue about sex, since I think it has a basis in the changing economic climate. Whereas knowing people has always been important, it has taken on a new dimension today as people are much more likely to change jobs and fields within a shorter period, sometimes out of necessity.

I dunno, I just want to see what people think about this. If you think nothing has really changed, then fair enough.

its a loaded term and it aint concise

Eh, doesn't stop people from using loaded terms like 'Communism' to concisely mean 'totalitarian system with a command economy'. I use 'hedonism' slightly differently and people jump down my throats when it isn't even the point at all :dunno:
 
I personally think a business person learning golf is a practical skill, it is a marketable skill.

Look, peasants in the Middle Ages only worked as hard as they needed to and spent the rest of the time in sober church going or partying. Is that hedonism?
 
I personally think a business person learning golf is a practical skill, it is a marketable skill.

Look, peasants in the Middle Ages only worked as hard as they needed to and spent the rest of the time in sober church going or partying. Is that hedonism?

Erm, huh?
 
Erm, huh?

You didn't get the memo that peasants didn't work that hard? In the Ancien Régime for example peasants were guaranteed 180 days off, that's like half a year!
 
You didn't get the memo that peasants didn't work that hard? In the Ancien Régime for example peasants were guaranteed 180 days off, that's like half a year!
Days off in which they mostly worked on their own land, or around their own houses. The peasant-lord relationship was not one of employment, so "days off" don't automatically equate to vacation time.
 
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