The spanking poll

Non-angry, infrequent spanking of children by their parents?

  • I think spanking as parental discipline is (non-sexual) child abuse.

    Votes: 31 26.3%
  • I think spanking as parental discipline is sexual abuse of a child.

    Votes: 3 2.5%
  • I think spanking as parental discipline is not abusive.

    Votes: 69 58.5%
  • I think therefore I am... undecided.

    Votes: 9 7.6%
  • Wolverines!!

    Votes: 6 5.1%

  • Total voters
    118
I didn't know if I should start a new thread or post it here, it's not exactly about spanking but since spanking IMHO is one of the tools of authoritan upbringing I thought it fit in here :)

Yesterday there was an article in my local newspaper about a study done by the swiss national fonds where the took a look at youths and how the were raised....

the findings were that both kids who have been raised in a authoritan way and kids who have been raised in a anti-authoritan way don't perform too well and have more problems integrating into society.
I don't know what they defined as authoritan upbringing, but the definition can't be too strict, since they claim that today about 40% of swiss kids are raised in a authoritan way.

the best results seemed to yield parents who raised their kids in a balanced way, setting some boundaries but not too many, focussing on empathy, lending much support and less punishment and presssure (though not none at all) and building up a strong emotional bond with their kids...

link this isn't the article I read, but it's about the same study, and the only one I could find in english...

I have to say this doesn't exactly surprise me, since it was more or less the view I already held :)

thoughts?
 
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