Don't mind Lotus. He's just trying hard to seem above human while not realizing that one of the flaws of being human is that you can never surpass your humanity!
No, I'm trying to help humanity. Let me tell you a little story about when I was tipped. There I was, about 8 years old... my parents were having a party with all their friends (sort of a formal kind of party). Anyway, the house was looking pristine, everyone was dressed up, and I was trying to be discrete. But, I had been taking some piano lessons, and we had a baby grand piano, so it occured to me for some strange reason that I could do some entertaining - you know, add some background music. Of course I had to get all dressed up in my church clothes, and play some Beethoven, Mozart, etc. No big deal... it's not like I was the center of attention or anything, just
eine kleine Nachtmusik, in the background.
Well, some of these people were fairly wealthy I guess, and there just HAPPENED to be this vase thingy on the piano. Suddenly people started dropping some dollars into it, from time to time. I was astonished. I didn't know what to think. I just kept playing for a little while. Afterwards, when I was done, I retired back up to my room and played with my Ninja Turtles (or whatever). At the end of the night, my parents told me to come claim the tips.
I don't know. It was a disgusting feeling. The feeling of cheapness. Normally a kid is happy to get some cash from adults, but this time, I was being 'tipped'. It was a whole different feeling.
Some people just have pet peeves. Look at Axl Rose... he goes crazy when people throw stuff up on the stage at him. In his mind, it's a sign of disresepct... as if he's just some animal at the zoo for your entertainment, and you can throw some fruit at him or something. Usually all it takes it for somebody to throw a coin or something, and he'll just walk off the stage right then, after cussing someone out.
I guess my pet peeve is along these lines, with regards to tipping. It's belittling. Even as an 8 y/o, it made me feel 'beneath' the others (even more than I naturally would, being a kid).
"Ah yes... don't forget to throw some change in the guitar case, as you pass him by in the subway". Man, come on. Maybe some people can live like that - with no dignity. To me that's just disgraceful.