Oh boy..
Marriage is a right because it comes with other rights(and actually the UN calls marriage a right in their universal declaration of human rights, which we signed). We've already learned from the past(*cough*segregation*cough*) that enforcing "separate but equal" policies is a bad idea.
I don't find it to be the same thing.
And besides, I don't give a crap about the UN. If you want to prove something is a right, give me logical reason why it is.
Really, that insults you? Ok then.
I overreacted, but I still find it to be demeaning to the institution of marriage.
My point, the state should ALLOW them to have their marriage relationship, but they should not ENDORSE it by agreeing with them that its marriage. The best solution to the debate is to take the word out of the lawbook.
Sure but in the mean time we have to make sure people are being treated equally.
Agreed, but define the word equal. I think changing wording to suit a certain group of people is putting them above everyone else.
It IS a human right to marry whomever you want with no legal bounderies telling you that you cannot based on numerous reasons.
Sure, but its not a legal right for the state to call it marriage. Its a right for me to allow them to call it marriage. But its not a right for the state to agree with them.
You seem rather joyful to see any bans on gay marriages to stay. To me you seem to have a strong opinions on gay marrages
I support the gay marriage ban, but I really don't care all that much, especially about California. I'm more laughing at them for not understanding the English language than anything.
Let me put it this way, I was a LOT MORE upset about UHC then I was about Prop 8 being overturned. And I'd gladly allow gay marriage in every state to get abortion overturned in one state.
Not on this planet. The magma and the core are HOT!!!
Who says hell is on Earth at all?
Ok, lets ban Christians from marrying.
On what grounds?
Just make marriage an informal institution with no legal standing. Churches can decide who to marry, and even if gays couldn't find anybody to marry them they could still call themselves married.
I'd agree to that.
Gays will enjoy equal legal rights with heterosexuals - division of property, adoption rights, tax benefits, etc. Call it a civil union, call it whatever, but everyone will have it. It won't be "separate but equal." Each couple will have equal legal standing, and marriage can remain as it has always been - something decided by individuals rather than any binding law.
I agree with them having all of those rights you mentioned except for adoption rights for reasons I've stated. And besides, adoption isn't a "Right" its something that's given to you when the parent, orphanage, judge, or whoever says you are qualified to adopt. Personally, I think that gays should be able to adopt in certain circumstances, but not as a general rule. But everything else yes.
This means the guy down the street can say he's married to his pig, but that won't have any legal standing apart from an investigation to ensure there's no abuse going on.
Agreed. He can say he's married to his pig. He cannot, however, consummate that marriage.
When, in our nations history, was it anything but as it is now? And how accurate is it to describe what you do as 'as its always been' when it factually hasnt?
Well, I don't know much about ancient history, but I'm sure that probably was how it was long ago in the past. But that's irrelevant.