Why is it necessary to assume these malicious motives upon people that oppose abortion? Wouldn't the more logical reason for their opposition be what they say it is: that they think a foetus is a living human being. Rather than some theoretical willingness to uphold the patriarchy or whatever. The claim that the reason for opposing abortions is the upholding of patriarchy, which you basically say here, is rather suspect, because almost everywhere men and women oppose/approve of abortion at almost the same rate.(1) Opposing abortion may end up having the effect which you describe, but it does not necessarily mean that it is their objective. Much like the right likes to say that because feminism, according to them, has destroyed the family, it was feminist's objective all along to destroy the family. It's a non sequitur. Actions can have unintended consequences.
Now that I have questioned the dogma, in order to stay in polite company, must affirm that I support abortion rights, and could perhaps even be persuaded that people should have the right to after birth abortions.
(1)
https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-ta...out-as-likely-as-men-to-favor-legal-abortion/