As a somewhat authentic cook and able to cook for 125 people as an occupation and praised for it,then I think you should try to cook as authentic a recipe as possible, and not stray too far from what adds the blend of delicious flavors and textures and transforms it into "comfort food". It also enhances the meal if there is just enough to satisfy,with nothing left over, so people are murmuring how satisfying it was, with wonderful aromas, but are left wishing they had a second spoonful to be full. Since it takes time for the brain to register fullness in your belly, then when not fully sated, then the repast is more appreciated.
If making chili then you should pay attention to its Mexican roots, add the wonderful thickener of masa flour as it imparts a unique flavor, use pinto beans not kidney, never add macaroni though a tiny portion of rice is delicious, and use beef tongue when possible.
Just as there are lots and lots of carbonara recipes,when you don't use an authentic Italian cheese and use bacon instead of panchetta, well...it is no longer carbonara. Romano should be used and when ever possible fresh pasta as it is heavenly. You shoudn't use milk but cream if going that route but that isn't true carbonara. You should use olive oil as that blend of oil and the drippings of the panchetta combine to add a signature to the meal.
Except that you're wrong. Carbonara, as someone else mentioned, was invented by Italians serving Americans or using American food products for themselves during WWII and specifically uses bacon and eggs cus they are American staples they had available. A variation of it uses pancetta instead- both are acceptable, neither is gospel. So to say it just ins't carbonara cus it uses smoked pork vs unsmoked pork is simply misinformed or snooty.
Also there's nothing wrong at all with using dried pasta. I have been reading Marcella Hazan's cook books and she loves dried, eggless pasta. She says both fresh and dried have merits, and neither is better, and use should actually depend on the sauce. The problem is americans eat crappy dried pasta, just like we eat crappy supermarket bread. If you get good imported italian semolina macaroni it has a magnificent chew and texture to it when cooked correctly, and when salted right has great flavor (another issue americans have is not salting pasta water, I just don't get it).
For other stuff like bolognese, yes, canned pasta with some hamburger thrown in is barely palatable, but there's no such thing as one authentic bologense recipe either. It's basically something peasants used to make with a bunch of ingredients on hand so it varies by region. Some really good recipes actually put gelatin in it to mimic the gelatin from marrow bones and some will use a dash of fish sauce to mimic the funky taste of older beef! Other people I know will put some bacon in it over pancetta because they like the smokey flavor. So while I agree the first time or two making something pick a good recipe and stick to it as close as possible, I don't think you need to try to be authentic. Authentic is overrated. I think what we should do is try for scratch made quality food.
Some stuff is just too burdensome though, like I use quality,100% parmesan cheese that tastes good but almost never spring for the imported parmigiano reggiano but it's extremely expensive and is hard to find it not dried out cus it's usually cut into wedges and stored in individual plastic. The point is to use a good cheese made in the correct style, but it doesn't have to literally be from cows in a specific region in Italy to taste good.
Anyway, I like chili with beans, though it might not be the most authentic. I don't like cut tomatoes in it, but I do like some tomato sauce or paste. But I probably suck at making chili cus I don't use whole chilis, I just throw in the powdered spices- chipotle, cayenne, cumin. And I put garlic salt in mine too.
Tonight we're having chicken burrito bowls cus it's a slow cooker meal and I have to take kids to dance class. It's super easy, and I think it's tasty.
-Two boneless, skinless chicken breasts
-Can of black beans drained
-Salsa
-Frozen corn
-Taco seasoning or you can use your own blend of spices like chili powder, cumin etc
1. Put chicken in crock pot
2. Season with half the taco seasoning, rub into the chicken
3. Pour all other ingredients over chicken and add remaining taco seasoning
4. Give a little stir
5. Cook on low for 6-8 hours
6. Shred chicken with a fork a half hour before serving and stir it up
7. Serve over rice, in tortillas, on nachos, or plain. Top with whatever you like- avacado, cheese, green onion, hot sauce, sour cream, anything really.