I think many people see them similarly to Native Americans. The Amish are good at what they do and have a pretty solid reactionary and backward culture. Straw hats, black suits and funny beards. The women so prim and proper. I'm glad they enjoy their lifestyle community values. US tribes also look to be quaint and nostalgic on the outside with all their stewardship of the land values and fancy public rituals. Tribal life is nothing like one would expect, especially in the traditional tribes. They are closer to the Taliban than to middle of the road Americans. Internal tribal life is nothing like the movies.
Depends on the sect.
The Schwarzentrubers are all buggy. They wear all black. They don't even accept rides, so far as I know. The rest do.
There are some cultural differences. Some can be jarring.
As far as I can tell
1. Yeah there is indeed horsehockey everywhere
2. There is less taboo about staring in Amish culture. Much less. If you're in line at DG, the Amish ahead of you may turn around to stare, and so will the ones behind you. Directly, and unbroken. This creates some awkwardness.
3. Personal property is not as strong a line. If I go to the laundromat, there is a strong chance an Amish will take my clothes out of the dryer. Not to steal. They just want the dryer. They'll leave the clothes neatly folded on a table. Which is, alright, I guess. Whatever.
4. During covid, no masks, no distancing, didn't reduce crowd sizes. No covid denial amongst them so far as I could tell. Who lives, who dies, all considered the will of God. This extends further, to most illnesses and injuries.
5. No education. Believe it would promote social stratification.
6. Bishops have a much more active role. They're mayor, labor organizer, arbiter of disputes. All the functions of government essentially rolled into one man. In some sects, bishops even approve brands available for purchase - at whim, they can determine that the members of their sect don't buy Nichols bread(coworker always complained about this)
They also really like baseball. Amish baseball games are really common.