I am the same as you, I completely dread repeating any experience, so much that I get paranoid about watching a YouTube video twice. But that's really dumb. See, many books or other words of art were clearly intended for multiple readings. Some, like the Bible, the Odyssee, the Divine Comedy and so forth, only allow you to extrapolate their meaning with repeated readings/listens. That is why the bible was so important in medieval households for example, because stories were told and re-told and through that repetition people managed to delve deeper into the texts without needing a secondary text or google scholar. I really think the first experience is always primarily an emotional and aesthetic one, especially in regards to books. No matter whether you want it or not, on first reading you will probably pay most attention to both prose and plot, and not towards the underlying meaning of a text. Novelty hunters like us are in constant danger of falling into the trap of superficiality, when really what we (sorry, I should speak for myself) desire is the opposite of superficial, it is detailed, highly specific knowledge and meaning.
I think to some smaller degree you are already doing the re-reading anyway, because I am sure with all the challenging books you read, you end up having to read a certain passage two or even three times to really "get it", that was the case for me with Thus Spoke Zarathustra, where I had to read many passages up to five times, or with Simulacra and Simulation, where the style is a little too continental and too obscure thus forcing me to deconstruct and reexamine certain passages.
That being said I have only re-read three books in my entire life, one being The Little Prince, the other Alice in Wonderland and the third Brother's Karamazov.