Awesome for your uncle JR. I would say after two 20 year careers he deserves everything he gets :b:
Now that this thread is back on topic...
There are usually three reasons someone becomes an officer (new, not a prior).
1.) To get money for college.
2.) Do their part in service to their country and move into a civilian career.
3.) Blow . .. .. .. . up for a living.
I don't normally like the guys from number one. Now that they have their degree they treat the service as a burden and act like their lives are miserable while they work off their obligation. . .. .. .. .. . . .. .. .. .. . . .. .. .. .. .. And they do it in front of everybody, which is horrible for the ratings because here is an officer with the privileges and responsibilities they aspire to and they treat it like a curse. ROTC-nazis fall into this category for the most part. They are not all bad of course. Not surprisingly most JOs of this sort leave when they can.
Number two makes up the most of the officers in my opinion. These guys feel a duty to serve their time, but they also have other dreams and goals. So they do their time happily and competently and then bid their farewells. It is sad to see truly exceptional officers leave in this way, but they did they part and they are entitled to their dreams.
Number three are the losers. These are the guys that joined up to look pretty in smart uniforms and boss people around because they never could before. Inevitably these guys always talk about how they are just about to apply to BUDS, or ranger school, or sniper school or whatever. They thought it would all be shooting guys and driving fast. The reality of being an officer is horrible hours, crushing responsibility and lots and lots and LOTS of paperwork. Not surprisingly these wannabees have little motivation to work long hours, accept crushing responsibility or devote their time to paperwork. These offices are horrible for the military because they make horrible mentors for the junior enlisted, are nothing but a burden for the senior enlisted they are supposed to support, and end up requiring another officer to pull their weight. These guys just mope around until the command can find a place to stash them or their commitment runs out.
So obviously there is a huge attrition rate between the 4-6 year service markers for officers. Where the military makes it money is those from group 1 and 2 that find that they like what they are doing and want to continue on.
The second attrition mark is around 10 years. At that point you are an O-4 and you find yourself to be half way to retirement. It is time to put up or get out, because if you continue on you know you are going to go for twenty and maybe never get to join the FBI like you always wanted or whatever. So we lose a lot here as well.
Now I happened to be number two. My original intention was to serve for four years and get out to be a history teacher. Along the way I did use the military to help pay for college, but that sort of just fell in my lap. So I commissioned and went to my first ship and found out I liked it, a lot. Then my sisters became teachers and I listened to their horror stories of insubordinate brats and how there was nothing they can do and that turned me off to teaching. So when my original four year commitment came up I realized I still liked what I was doing (and was good at it), and I no longer had a clear plan for what I would do afterward.
Now doing what I do in the Navy and graduating form the school I did I could pull down an awesome salary on the outside no problem, but I don't want to do just ANYTHING. So I took the next tour after my required four, which will put me at seven when I finish it. Then I get the option to go back to sea, which is what I like about the Navy, and when I finish that I will be at nine years. Crunch time.
There are a lot of people like me out there that just find the military as where they are at, why not continue? Yeah the service is still important but after 5 years can anyone say I didn't put in my time?
Igloodude's opinion could be helpful, as he was a JO that did leave the service.