If you go out and look what kind of people are out there, like I did, you will see that some people examplify ugliness itself and make decisions that lead them to be failures.
Where and when was this? I was out there just after the Charlie Hebdo attacks, and I found that the attitude of most Palestinians was much less ugly than that of the Israelis. From Palestinians I would generally hear "We all worship the same God, we should live in pease", while from the Israelis I would hear "You will see, there is a war coming and you shall have to choose a side". I wonder how your experience could be so different.