Tell you what zlij, when you are a woman or when you are with a woman and the subject of abortion vs. adoption comes up...you make that decision then. That's what being an adult is all about, making a decsion, a tough and intensely personal, the government, church, grand mullah, parent, and civic organization of the world have no right to butt their nose and attention into, type of decision.
I have stated it before, to others but under similar circumstances. You are young, my guess is under 15. As a youth, the idealistic and glorified truths of the world are easier to behold in black and white. There are no qualms about what to believe and what is right. The saying goes, "Wise words from the mouth of babes."
However, that axiom does not hold truth as the days and years grind down the rock of your haughty words and unrealistic and unrealizeable dreams. As maturity and the real world take hold of you and yours, you will find that the truths that you held as self evident...are not.
You are entitled to your opinion, it's one the great things about the western world, is that YOU are ENTITLED to them. Do not think to or dare to judge that you have the RIGHT to remove those same entitlements that you enjoy from another. A woman's womb is a woman's. What goes in there or on in there is her decision and hers to make.
As to the no sex before marriage, that's really nice on paper or on the TV shows from the 50's but in real life, that does not happen. If you or a select few you know have been able to do that, then great and bully for you. That is your CHOICE. Again, it's a CHOICE, a FREDDOM that you have made. Enjoy that freedom and do not think to impose or remove it from others. Free thought and free will is the only rights that people can make, and these rights become more precious and defendable as we get older.
I wonder what your views will be on this subject in 10 years? I hope that you have the forethought and wisodm by then to have accounted for the growth and maturity that will affect you and those around you by that time.
Best of luck to all on both sides of this debate.
My 2 cents