I've called myself 5'8" (173 cm) forever, but age/posture/HRT has me barely scraping 5'7" (170cm) lately. Yay!
And if any of you masc types
really want to be taller, there's surgery for that. 3" (8cm) or even double that, inserted into your legs:
https://www.bbc.com/news/world-55146906
alright so imma muse about this (not to you, but in general) because sexual selection is pretty much the only thing that matters in regards to height. it's why people care so much about it and such. so about that masculine thing
so plural, impersonal you, not second person you:
i'm slightly taller than IglooDame and honestly the heteronormative dating world is really the only sphere where height really matters (military prioritizes my size, interestingly enough), and only to some girls, who you're better off without anyways, to put it bluntly. like they're fine people as friends, but wrong to date for you, if it's the 6 ft thing. superficiality is honestly usually fine but you don't want to be romantically involved with someone whose superficial standards you don't meet
dating is not all that matters in life anyways
only real handicap in dating is if you're severely shorter than the girls and even then like
all of the masculine ideals in dating are pretty bull anyways. there's some truth to some of it, heteronormativity exists, but it's pushed way too wayyy beyond what's reasonable in the manosphere. yes, shortness is often a disadvantage but like... i'm below average height in denmark, often shorter than women i date, "femininely" sensitive, kind of a social disaster, i'm literally insane, i look like a blobby metalhead stump at this point. i still have girls like me more often than i'd personally like to. because i
own my strangeness. i'm comfortable with being weird, and i go out to hang out and talk to interesting people, not to hook up. that works better than height
so i guess it's my psa. if anyone's insecure about their height, don't be. it's a disadvantage on the dating market, and that's about it.
i know that "just be yourself", "just relax", "don't be insecure about something you're insecure about" etc is bad advice, but i've already ranted too much about what i think this is all really implicitly about, so i'll stop here. it's a whole can of worms