Benign dictatorship. Most people cannot make responsible choice of the leader. They will vote for anyone who promises easy solutions to their problems.
Build the wall, imprison the oligarchs, you name it.
No. People can make responsible choices.
In those places where they are not given a choice,
where the regime is not a democracy and has rules that prevent one from working,
there people can only make unreasonable choices because those are the only ones given.
Neither the USA nor Russia nor the EU countries are democracies. The means of propaganda are monopolized by a few interests and actively managed to convince people that TINA.
The larger the polity the easier this is because it acts chiefly through discouragement of political participation. The barriers to active political engagement, running for office, are higher in larger polities: politicians need to find funding from... the oligarchs, who else has the scale to support large campaigns necessary on large polities? Honesty is harder to scrutinize and the candidate is known through a managed media image, not personally. Barriers to democracy are a structural part of large polities.
And all this also discourages the simple but crucial participation of merely voting, obviously.
The EU manages it in a slightly different way but with the same aim of discouraging participation and thus keeping a small caste necessarily abundant in corrupt individuals in power. In the EU it's the supra-national rules and laws that discourage participation: doesn't matter who wins the election, TINA because treaties.
In smaller countries outside empires or would-be empires the population can be scared and discouraged either through threat of foreign attack, or actual attack. But some manage to fend that off diplomatically and still be responsive to tier citizen's will. Better would would be one without any empires to protect and spread the influence of oligarchs.
You want a philosopher-king. Putin partly played that role. But kings die, the oligarchy strikes deals, it reasserts itself because it's an emergent characteristic of an empire-sized polity. A structural flaw that always undermines attempts at democracy.