You are also French.
Isnt "gay" french word for happiness btw?
You are also French.
You are quite right of course but since I am also a bit of religious folk here is my opinion: nature/natural is something dynamic and progressive. It evolves just like the rest of this planet does. You can confine certain type of nature to certain level of development for practical reasons but you must be aware that sooner or later this will be also subject to change.Time and time again, the religious folks who believe in not the natural world, but a supernatural one, will lecture society on what is or is not "natural".
They do not seem to have the slightest clue what "natural" means.
To Christians, our beliefs aren't exactly "supernatural". If God created the universe, his works are natural as well.
I thought it meant friendly, at least that is the English textbook definition. In any case, in neither the USA or France this meaning seems to be present beyond said textbooks any longer.Isnt "gay" french word for happiness btw?
What do you want? OTers like to repeat themselvesthat's tantamount.
I agree with Zack in that I disagree with the assumption that gay men can just "Get over" their lust for men. I'd agree that it is possible, but would be of a similar difficulty to straight men giving up their lust for women (That is to say, not easy.)
And its unable to be questioned that people (Gay or not) are able to control their sexual passions.
Since I believe sex is a special gift from God to be used in a certain way with one special person that you were bound to for life in marriage,
I do think we have a duty to control our sexual passions in other contexts. In short, I think that choosing to engage in homosexual behavior is a choice (And a sinful one) but that lust for men is only a choice in a similar manner as is lust for women.
Cheesy said:And what about homosexual love? It's not an act, it's a mindset. You can't get super drunk one night and wake up having been "gayed." You don't get "gayed" when you get jumped in the prison shower. It's not an accident, it's not a choice, it's who these people are. Sure, they lust homosexually. So what. They also love homosexually. Think of the love your parents have for each other. It's like that, except they're both dudes or both chicks.
Here's a thought for you. You think sex is something to be reserved for the bonds of marriage. Well as it stands right now, this "escape from sin" is explicitly denied to homosexual couples. They literally aren't allowed to release that sexual tension that you think should wait until matrimony. Ever. So you've faulted them for having sex outside of marriage, and also denied them marriage itself. How is that fair? How are they supposed to "win?" You've created conditions that cannot be met.
The more we know about God and His creation, the less "supernatural" they become. Just a few hundred years ago, flying would have been a "supernatural" thing.
The definition of supernatural is that it couldn't happen. If something supernatural happens, it's not supernatural.
Or impossible. Try going a few weeks without checking out a girl (and I don't mean eye-raping, even just a casual glance at her boobs or general shapeliness); you can't do it. The only people who can (probably) do it are monks who isolate themselves from the opposite sex almost entirely.
Which means what? That homosexuals should abstain from sex because it upsets you?
Yeah I used to believe that too when I was your age. You'll grow out of it.
And what about homosexual love? It's not an act, it's a mindset. You can't get super drunk one night and wake up having been "gayed." You don't get "gayed" when you get jumped in the prison shower. It's not an accident, it's not a choice, it's who these people are. Sure, they lust homosexually. So what. They also love homosexually. Think of the love your parents have for each other. It's like that, except they're both dudes or both chicks.
Here's a thought for you. You think sex is something to be reserved for the bonds of marriage. Well as it stands right now, this "escape from sin" is explicitly denied to homosexual couples. They literally aren't allowed to release that sexual tension that you think should wait until matrimony. Ever. So you've faulted them for having sex outside of marriage, and also denied them marriage itself. How is that fair? How are they supposed to "win?" You've created conditions that cannot be met
No, because its offensive to God. Heterosexuals should too, outside marriage.
Really? Maybe God created lots of "children" so when he gets old(he is apparently in late geriatric age judging by his incapacity to make this world into the Kingdom of heaven) they take care of him and this world. After all its quite "natural"...I'm pretty sure God can take care of himself; I don't think he needs you or anyone else looking out for him and his sensibilities. If something offends him, he'll deal with it in his own way. Why get in the way? I'd find that offensive to God, if I believed that he exists.
I believe that supernaturally, God could take someone's desires for such things away, but I'd agree that the vast majority of the time, you can't ever go without even "Just a causal glance." But then again, that's the whole reason Jesus died for our sins. The problem becomes when we become complacent regarding sin and don't even try to overcome it.
No, because its offensive to God. Heterosexuals should too, outside marriage.
I don't think so.
Chastity.
I'm well aware of what I'm arguing against, including the misconceptions. I'm well aware that these people think they love each other. It is, however, a disordered love.
Apparently everybody can have opinion and be an authority on anything according to his own standard. The kind of love you describe seems to me to be human love at its pinacle and not so common experience unfortunately. But then still some smart ass like me can come around and point out to you that even in spite of strong devotion and presence of some form of surrender to the other person involved your love is bound to end in frustration. That is unless that feeling has potential for enlargment within itself and can ultimately become something universal. For othewise you are probably (inspite the presence of considerable purity in your feelings) binding yourself to some other limited reality.Son, have you ever been in love? Not that adolescent can't-be-two-seconds-without-hanging-off-you adulation, I mean true, deep love, the kind that lasts, that feels like you could just merge with them and become one. If not, then you have no authority on what is and is not love.
Son, have you ever been in love? Not that adolescent can't-be-two-seconds-without-hanging-off-you adulation, I mean true, deep love, the kind that lasts, that feels like you could just merge with them and become one. If not, then you have no authority on what is and is not love.
What does "religious" mean, in this context, and why is this a "religious" question?No I haven't. But my argument is fundamentally a religion one, so it doesn't necessarily matter.
No I haven't. But my argument is fundamentally a religion one, so it doesn't necessarily matter.