But I'm not the one doing the "dismissing" am I?
Let me give a real world example: Black males have a stereotype of great sexual ability. Now I can go on endlessly about how damaging and degrading this stereotype is, but what is the point? Blacks do not protest this stereotype because we recognize that it helps us as well as harms us, and the net/loss gain is not worth rioting about. The net economic impact race-wide is probably negligible. How are my sons benefited/harmed by being told they are supposed to be great lovers? Its trivial.
The Asian nerd stereotype on the other hand is beneficial. It increases the social pressure on Asians to succeed. Why? Normally people have positive adults in their lives encouraging them to do well in school. But for Asians, they
also have the added influence of peer pressure and media pressure, all indoctrinating them with the idea that they must be smart, they must get good grades, etc,
because they are Asian. So the net impact is
more smart Asian schoolchildren. As an Asian parent, you have the additional support of society telling your kids that they are supposed to be smart. Their friends at school
expect them to be smart and consider them normal for being nerdy, rather than making them feel like they are a "sellout" or that they should be ashamed for doing well in school.
You've been following this thread so you know by now that I for one don't dismiss this issue as unimportant. Disagreeing with people about the substance of an issue is not dismissing the issue as unimportant is it?