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You've seen plenty of help. What you don't see is continued sympathy when you reject the help.
 
omg. i had both of those my freshman year, and i absolutely LOVED it. improv is so much fun. we had a show at the end of the term that counted for half of our grade. it was great. even my friends who hated that kinda stuff had a good time doing it.

I endorse this statement 100% :goodjob: It made me much more outgoing.

CG, I was trying to show you a guy atleast 10x more unattractive than you yesterday, but I couldnt find the pic on his myspace (none of my friends have his page and searching his name gave me 5mil results). He got a hot girlfriend (someone I know), and how did he do it? He is a real BSer and a charismatic guy.

He is FAT. No way around it. Your a bit chubby, but this guy is F A T. And he has an annoying laugh and is too sensitive. Explain how YOU have no chance to me again, because I can't believe it after seeing that guy get the girls.

There are women out there willing to accept you if your willing to accept yourself dude. I know its cheesy as hell, but its real. Everyone faces rejection at some point, its part of life and your certainly not doomed to a life of loneliness because you dont have some hot chick right now.

Question: How does height factor into looks? Is there a limit, for short or tall for you? Its a small sample of total female opinion, I know, but it doesnt hurt to ask :p
 
No, and I'm not stoping making "excuses". After what I have seen here and seen no help. I may as well become a Misogynist.

I wonder what more I can say, there are so many people with experience and good relationship knowledge that gave you very good advices, how can you not see help in that?!?!?! Seriously you must be joking.
What pisses me off is that I know for a fact that there is a solution and there are things that you can do to get better, and I know that it's just there waiting for you to grab it, but that your not willing to even try those things, or even accept that they exist! it's madness.

but on the other hand I understand what your going through cuz when I was like you, I didn't think that there was a solution either.

But what more can I say, I can't do it for you now can I.
if you were 16 I,de say "don't worry you still have plenty of time to grow out of this", but your freaking 23, it's about time that you start taking control over your life.
 
Question: How does height factor into looks? Is there a limit, for short or tall for you? Its a small sample of total female opinion, I know, but it doesnt hurt to ask :p

For me height is quite important. i like a guy i tilt my head up to kiss, or at least dont have to tilt down. but you see plenty of couples with a shorter guy. i recon their big personality makes them seem taller. a lot of my friends have a 6ft rule, even though some of them are reeeeeallly tiny. its a matter of opinion.

CG, SERIOUSLY, go make your own thread. I'm bored of it. i'm sorry, i started off sympathetic but if your just gonna crap on complaining about it, thinking about stuff all the time so its at the front of your mind, ignore everyones advice and only focusing on the negative stuff we say what did you expect? Your 23 for godssakes... life isnt that depressing.
 
a lot of my friends have a 6ft rule, even though some of them are reeeeeallly tiny. its a matter of opinion.

So if I'm exactly 6ft tall, after consulting Google calculator (and still growing, I'm 15, my father grew until he was 19), does this make me too short, or just right?
 
So if I'm exactly 6ft tall, after consulting Google calculator (and still growing, I'm 15, my father grew until he was 19), does this make me too short, or just right?

The average height of a western male is probably somewhere around 5'9" or 5'10" (175cm or so), so I'd say you're doing fine.
 
I endorse this statement 100% :goodjob: It made me much more outgoing.

Question: How does height factor into looks? Is there a limit, for short or tall for you? Its a small sample of total female opinion, I know, but it doesnt hurt to ask :p
:thumbsup:

most girls like guys taller than them, myself included. i'm short tho, 5'2''[[1.57m]], so that really isn't hard to be taller than me.

So if I'm exactly 6ft tall, after consulting Google calculator (and still growing, I'm 15, my father grew until he was 19), does this make me too short, or just right?

just right, unless you're going after a girl who is 10cm taller than you and prefers taller guys.
 
Where do I go to develope a personality? I've done all I can with the looks.

The university of real life, it's in the yellow pages. Look under pubs, clubs, well social places generally. There are some tack on friends requirements, but a buff fella like you should have no problem making friends :)

Your 23 for godssakes... life isnt that depressing.

Precisely he's far too young to be jaded, that usually comes around 30, but sooner if you've kinda realised the world is a ******** and so are most of the people in it ;):lol:
 
there's plenty of help here. the only reason you're not getting anywhere is because YOU keep making excuses.
After sitting out. I came to realize that I was too proud to realize that I was just making excuses and hoping to look for an easy short cut.

I wonder what more I can say, there are so many people with experience and good relationship knowledge that gave you very good advices, how can you not see help in that?!?!?! Seriously you must be joking.
I am willing to start over and this time be willing to take them.

CG, SERIOUSLY, go make your own thread.
I did about three years ago. It was closed due to it was a personal thread (and cooinently it was a dating advice thread).

I'm bored of it. i'm sorry, i started off sympathetic but if your just gonna crap on complaining about it, thinking about stuff all the time so its at the front of your mind, ignore everyones advice and only focusing on the negative stuff we say what did you expect?
I'm sorry if I made you upset :sad:. I'm also sorry for ignoring everyone's advice.
 
Tell that to my last 15 years :blush: (out of 23)
If you don't mind me asking where in Wisconsin do you live?

CG you should comb this thread for some of the advice given. Write it down and do something about it. I can suggest other things too if you need.
 
Well CG, you completely ignored my PM, and the post 2 pages back from me, so I shall post it again considering you will now read it.

Considering how you kept on insisting that EVERY girl thinks you are fat and ugly, well, guess what? There are many people among the globe who thought the same way, and some which still do. I myself, am one of them, I always thought I was fat and ugly (I made a thread about it a few months back), but after a while I got used to it, and then I found a girl who liked me for just who I am. Just walking around with a thundercloud over your head won't help any. That will actually make girls stay away (most of the time). You have to understand that not every guy is destined to be a muscular guy. Same for the girls, not every girl will be that hot anorexic chick on that magazine. But trust me, there are people out there who like people for who they are. Looks aren't everything. Just be yourself, and lighten up a bit. You may still not be a very muscular guy, but you'll be leading a good life, and you'll have a better chance of getting a girl. Also, to the other guys in this thread who just keep on telling him to buff up, that advice is not exactly the best, why? Because that will actually make it worse for him. Because he is changing himself completely just to be with a girl, which could have bad results in the end.

It's a long read, but it'll help. If it doesn't, I fail :p
 
If you don't mind me asking where in Wisconsin do you live?

CG you should comb this thread for some of the advice given. Write it down and do something about it. I can suggest other things too if you need.

Someplace between Madison and Milwaukee
 
OK well living in those two towns would increase your odds substantially. I've had a fair amount of success in both simply visiting. Wisconsin girls are very friendly and like to have fun.
 
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