Berzerker
Deity
No, I didn't. I based that on a handful of things, some of which were certainly related to how people in the 1960s reacted to skin color.
My friend didn't get to attend public school. I did. That is a huge advantage. My advantage over him isn't "I am white and he is black." My advantage is that in the 1960s the people of my town, with the complicity of my parents, treated my friend's family abominably. What singled my friend's family out is that they were black, but the disadvantage is in the response to that, not their skins.
You may want to live in a fantasy that since he ended up president Obama must have somehow been insulated from the realities faced by my friend. (For the record, Obama, the friend in question, and I are all very close to the same age.) I'm not going to tell you that you can't revel in your fantasies, but I'm not gonna help.
We're not comparing your advantages to a black childhood friend who couldn't attend public school, you said your situation was superior to Obama's. Was your education better? Obama had advantages over you, his skin color was not one of them. But intelligence, charisma, looks, temperament, drive, etc... He had plenty going for him.