embitteredpoet said:
I find the cocnept of going to a posh school and it being harder to get good grades an entirely alien one. I mean are these as and Bs relative to only your school peers?
Most confusing.
Well, sort of. Frankly, even in the most difficult high schools in the US, straight As are not that hard to get.
There are numerous reasons to assume that this is false.
1) "As and Bs" - I don't want to dwell on this point too much; you can get into Ivy League schools with a couple of Bs. However, "mostly As and Bs" (which implies that there was at least one C) is absolutely unacceptable to an Ivy League school. In the US, that isn't even above average. To some extent, school is taken into account, but even at Phillips Academy or Stuyvesant High School a B is only a mediocre grade.
2) A Sophmore. If you made this assertion as a Senior, I might be skeptical and assume that you got in due to legacy (as 40% of Harvard students do) or because of a large donation or as a political favor to your parents from a politician if your parents are particularly important. However, for a sophmore to get into Harvard (and they have, in the past), that sophmore needs not only perfect grades and a nice "personal statement" (by which I suppose you mean the multiple application essays) but also some sort of distinguishing characteristic - they've made significant advances in some scientific or mathematical field, they've written an exceptional book, etc. I doubt more than two or three non-graduating students are accepted into Harvard each year, and almost every year all of those would be Juniors.
3) Lack of knowledge of the college application process.
a) The dean interviewed you. This doesn't happen at all in the high-level colleges - they get too many applicants to do it, and would be particularly unable to do so right now while the entire admissions department is working on next year's applications.
b) You wrote a personal statement. Not multiple application essays. Even students who have bought their way in (and I know one at Harvard) always have to write the application essay and go through the whole process even though they are guaranteed admission. I haven't even heard of a college that uses personal statements - maybe some small liberal arts colleges do, but not the Ivy League.
I stand by calling him a liar, and I will continue to do so unless he provides proof other than his own statements. CFC is not a place to make broad, obviously false statements and get feel-good congratulations for them.