1. Finish the 5 ongoing building projects (on 3 coasts)
2. Meet my newest baby cousin.
3. "Put a ring on it" with the gf... she knows its coming...
4. Double the number of organizers in my movement.
I am getting married April 19th, 2015... THIS SUNDAY!
I crossed out what i did !- Find a better paying job
- Or at least same salary but doing something i enjoy doing
- Exercise regulary and/or swimming. Did it for 10 months last year but stopped because of a severe illness in november. And i got used to being a slob. Time to start again.
- Gain weight (muscle, not fat obviously - but i can't get fat anyway; i did gain 2kg of muscle last year so yay me)
- Travel a lot more (related to my first point in my list)
- Learn all the things
- Get MOAR coins
- Smoke less
- Drink more !
- Hug a Samoyed (dog)
Congrats!3. I am getting married April 19th, 2015... THIS SUNDAY!
i want to tell the girl i love that i love her.
Quite.
As for me, I'd like:
-a girlfriend, especially a certain amazing girl
-a reasonably tolerable job
-a way to get over my driving issues
-getting back into shape; would like to stay fit enough to pass the National Guard
tests and basic without too much trouble by maybe the summer of 2015
-getting my minor in German
-study in Germany next spring semester
So where did you decide the dog would sit (and does the dog agree with your decision)?![]()
A plan, or something to strive for.
My life is so aimless and pointless right now, and its tearing me up. I'm just going through the motions and I have no idea where its leading.
What are your driving issues?
You've never seen The Amazing Race, have you? A couple of weeks ago, one of the teams was eliminated because they fell so far behind due to not understanding how to drive the car they were assigned to drive. Therefore they took public transit and accumulated so many hours in penalties that they couldn't hope to catch up even if they had managed to otherwise complete all the tasks. The host had to track them down in some train or bus depot to tell them they'd been eliminated.What are your various difficulties with driving a car?
"Any idiot can drive, and most of them do", as my ex-father-in-law used to say. I thought he was quite witty.
Numbered list time!
- Finish thesis work.
- Get a job I like, preferably in the Northeast or maybe Georgia (lot of friends moved back there). Colorado is just too far west, and I don't know too many people on the West Coast.
- Take at least a two-week vacay in the summer before starting new job.
- Run the Boston half-marathon and the Atlanta Thanksgiving half-marathon.
- Get my long-run pace down to 8:20 minutes per mile.
- Learn how to cook some more fancy dishes--I don't know what yet, but I want to cook more.
- Fix the work-life balance.
- Max out my Roth IRA contribution and generally manage my money well.
- Obligatory new relationship line, time to get over the exes and move on.
That's the first round of ideas, we'll see how it goes.
Goals for 2014
Be more focused on my lifting and hit 2 plate bench, 3 plate squat, and 4 plate deadlift.
Not be in grad school anymore and have some type of job that isn't completely beneath me to replace it.
Still be with girl I love.
Be generally more aggressive and adventurous than I was last year.
Well, i gathered i 'likely' would have a book published (by January 2015), and this is to happen (deal done) either still prior to Summer 2015, or at the start of Autumn 2015, so not really that off.
I'm in a somewhat similar boat. I've written two novels, both designed to be mass market paperbacks. For that, I need an agent. I've made numerous, numerous queries to agencies with virtually no interest.
For the first book, I now retained one of the most celebrated editors in the world. He's giving it a thorough going over, and I hope to hear from him any day now.
For the second one, I did a major re-write and asked the lady who'd earlier edited it to take another look. She came back with numerous suggestions, but I got a nasty case of bronchitis and haven't been able to follow up.
So, what do I want to have achieved in one year's time? Have an agent for at least one of the books; have her present my book(s) to a mass-market publisher who is genuinely interested. [Publishing is a surprising long process. From the time the publisher decides to publish a book until it hits the bookstore shelves is usually about a year.]
BTW: I'm done with Chapter 5 of a planned 20-chapter novel, and so I also wish to have this book done and sent off to an editor.