So about 1.5 months ago I finally met a girl whom I actually find "stable girlfriend material". She's an incredibly nice person (I actually know very few people
that nice), is a (part-time) model and actress, stunningly hot, works and studies the same thing as me (music), and is not a native German speaker so I'm not likely to start any fights simply because of my wording (which seemed to have happened quite a lot in the past). On top of that, she lives 15 minutes away from my place (by foot).
Then her cousin died and she had to go back to her home country (she was very close to him, and he was actually also a manager of a fairly big company assuring them all a safe living). Before she came back to Germany, she had an accident with a car, and she was in hospital for 2 weeks. Then, when she finally got back, she got thrown out of her apartment.
I'm not BSing, I know so many friends of her and we were all really, really worried about her, since nobody here could get a hold of her for almost 1 month (no cellphone in there, she called some of us a while ago from a home number, but I was in Romania at that time for Easter...). Right now I've actually just spoken to her for the first time in 1 month (except for emails), and even this "conversation" was online.
Obviously, since she missed more than a month of courses, she now has problems at her uni. And now
the most annoying part - since she had to move, she now lives in Köln - which, granted, is only 30 mins away by train, with trains twice an hour (free for me to ride on, as a student), but still!
I mean if she could go to Cologne and back again every day for courses (she's been studying there the whole time), I could make it a couple of times a week, but it's not fun, especially since I'm working from morning to midnight almost every weekday, with courses, a job, practicing, etc. And just how many things can happen to a (good!

) person in one month? I'm reminded by the Romanian proverb, "the year doesn't bring, what the hour might" - which can be conveniently used for both good and bad things. I guess it's obvious in which context I'm using it here!
