1) Actually no, you don't have the right to opt out what you put your responsability in just because you changed your mind. You can't just say "no, I don't wish to reimburse my loan after all". Well you can say it, but you don't get to stop paying it anyway.
2) Because there IS no way out save for killing someone. We might, as a society, give a "right to screw up" and try to mitigate the consequences of someone making bad decisions, but that's because we can find ways to compensate. You can't find a way to compensate killing someone like that.
3) You're the one putting someone in a state of dependency. You can't then yank the rug under their feet. Just like I can't tie you up and throw you in the water and then say "hey, I have no duty to care for someone else, she could have swim by herself, I'm not responsible for her drowning".
1.) Yes, but that responsibility does not include "continuing to offer your body". It may include being forced to use your body (to earn money), but it does not include direct access to your body.
2.) Yeah but again, you can't be forced to save the lives of other people by offering your body. That includes even harmless things like
blood donations. If a person is about to die and you're the only person around who can donate blood, you're still not obligated to do that, and nobody is allowed to force you, even if that means the death of that other person.
3.) But that again ignores bodily self-determination. It's not that you have to "care" for somebody, it's that you have to continue to offer your body.
1) Following your reasoning, you get the right of life and death on all your descendants, because after all, without you they wouldn't exist. I'm pretty sure you can realize how bogus this reasoning is.
2) The "only difference" is a pretty major one, I don't see how or why you think you can just shrug it away as a trivial little detail. The only difference between consensual sex and rape is consent, I'm pretty sure it's still sufficient to make one fun and the other a major crime.
1.) No, you don't. All of your descendants can live without using your body, you can give them away (or if they're older, break ties with them) without causing their death, and that's perfectly legal. The difficult thing here is that you can't give the fetus away and guarantee it's survival.
2.) Yes, it is a major one, but I don't think it changes the rules.
Stopping having sex doesn't kill someone.
So potential death of the other person makes the difference?
Well yeah, why not.
Do you think a person should be allowed to sell themselves into slavery, or more broadly, ownership?
Do you think a person should be allowed to sell their body for a night and if they at some point regret that contract, want to opt out, and the person continues anyway, it would not be rape?
I mean, there is probably a case to be made for these, but as a society we have decided that a person does not have the ability to give that right away. Even if the lives of other people are in it.
BTW, I'm pretty sure you're playing the Devil's Advocate in this entire thread
Well, I'm conflicted on the issue, but couldn't really figure out why I tend to be against late-term abortion. I made the same arguments that I see other people make in this thread to myself, but I couldn't find a convincing reason that didn't boil down to "because I have a double-standard when dead babies are involved", so I made the best case for late-term abortions that I could.
I guess you could call it "playing Devil's Advocate", but I do think the argument is sound, and I still have not heard an argument that convinces me otherwise. People are looking at the whole picture and decide that "for reasons" this is different, just like I do when I justify it for myself, but when you pick apart all the elements that are there, then none of these elements really justify restrictions on late-term abortions. In a way it seems to be a "greater than its parts"-issue for people, in situation A, B, and C you people could not force you, but if you put them all together, then somehow the total sum of the things involved then allows people to force you.
I do not think that's a good counter-argument, not even when I make it to myself, and I hoped people would bring something more cohesive than I brought forward in the "debates" I had with myself. I guess in the end the question really is whether there is actually a limit to "bodily self-determination", and if so, why it only affects this one case, and whether that exception is reasonable. After all, we do not have such an exception in any other law - "The person killed your girlfriend, they stole your goods, set your house on fire, and you gave them a quick death, so you will not be punished for hunting them down and killing them." is not a thing, you'd still be treated as a murderer, only the sentence might be eased up because of those circumstances.
If A proposed to resolve the situation by killing B, we might tend to see that as a moral conundrum. And therein lies the central question, at what point does the act of terminating a pregnancy become the act of killing of person?
The moment we see the fetus as a person of their own, which is usually around the time we stop allowing abortions currently. That in itself is not a point though, because again, not offering a blood transfusion for example is also killing a person by refusing to offer ones body, and is well within the rights of every person, as is not offering the tenth blood transfusion one week down the line.