Hey, it is not dumb to not be perfectly aware of white America's history, don't be so privileged

(i am JOKING

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That said, didn't the South make it clear it wanted to just be allowed to be its own country, and only took up arms because the North gave the ultimatum it means war? You seem to claim that the South didn't want to be independent as much as wanting to steal some land of the North, the North having allowed it to secede and the poor North being forced by the invading back-stabbing South to go to war as well. That can't be right, even i who am not learned on US history can tell you that

I mean you even have presidents saying stuff to the tune of "The North was ready to go to war to keep the country as one, and the South so as to split it" etc (paraphrase)