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Diverse in Unity
I would be looking to overthrow the government or at least deposing the president and his loyal members of government - it's possible that such a move would be impossible without a lot of loss of life, so I'd move on the diplomatic front at the same time - would attempt to rub Russia's back somehow to get them on my side during negotiations with the Syrians.
I disagree with that what I understand of your post, and shrug at the rest (no offence). Depose the government? How? Through military force? And what should we replace it with? Because the things are looking now that if the government is deposed, there will be a lot of blood due to sectarian violence. Do we want another Iraq, with a little Lebanese flavour? No, we don't.
Even if we convinced the Russians and the Chinese, what would we do then? Nobody is rushing into any forcible action, and diplomacy doesn't really work in such situations - we have the Assad government on one side which we can apply pressure at. On the other hand, the so-called opposition is an amorphous bunch of militias, peaceful protesters, terrorists, and army deserters which likely doesn't have any organized leadership with actual control over its people. It's far worse than Yugoslavia ever was, and we all know how well diplomacy worked there.
So, in the end, the matter boils down to two options: use military force to physically remove Assad from power, or do nothing. I freely admit that doing nothing seems far more sensible to me.
I'd go for reformation in cooperation with Assad.
Yes. I think that's what the regime was basically doing, until it came under attack and it responded its usual, time-proved methods.
But I would openly support and arm the Rebels at the same time, while trying to have them under enough influence to be able to tell them to stop.
Arm them? Oh gods, no - the Middle East is overflowing with weapons already, and what do we know about these rebels? To me they seem more interested in settling their sectarian/ethnic accounts than actually reforming Syria into something better. I wouldn't trust them with a spoon.
I wouldn't oppose strictly humanitarian relief efforts, but nothing above that.
I agree. "Western" intervention may have an occasional good thing or two, but ultimately, it will be self-serving and guided by geopolitical powermongering, not by any genuine interest to help the Syrian people. If Assad is overthrown, let him be overthrown by Syrians themselves, not by the kind people in Washington, Paris etc.
Plus, the West doesn't really have that much interest in Syria. I am sure that even the Israelis would prefer Assad to stay in power - he's someone they can work it. If Syria becomes another failed state, what's stopping the terrorists from using it as a base of operations against Israel, like Hezbollah in Lebanon?