Okay, this is getting derailed into another topic entirely. I will only say this: my cats considered me their mother long before I considered myself to be their mother. I came to the realization when my Gussy started trying to nurse on the neckline of the sweatshirt I was wearing while cuddling him one night (he was maybe 6 weeks old at the time, and I'd rescued him from a miserable existence in the back yard, freezing at night, always hungry)... he'd been abandoned, and I can't imagine whether his cat mother died or somebody just threw him out like garbage and he ended up in my yard.
Obviously, I meant no disrespect to Contre's mom, and certainly no harm.
Contre, how about making her an account here so we can all say hello to her, and thank her for helping out with these camera projects?