rugbyLEAGUEfan
Deity
By learning how to stand up for yourself.
generic, meaningless response.
I believe much of it is dictated by genetics. You either have it in you, or you don't. You can't just grow a set of balls. It doesn't work like that.
The best advice is to accept your place in the world. I know I lack the physical power to kick other men's asses, and I accept my position at the bottom of the food chain. The good thing is I make good money, and I can buy everything I need... except love. You just have to make do without love.
In summary: The answer is to become filthy rich and then you can thumb your noses at those SOB's. Consequently, it's yet another reason I'm against distribution of wealth. Then the bullies would truly win.
So in your own way , you have learnt to stand up for yourself