A letter you write is a physical thing, handled by the post system. It gets into contact with few people on its route, and the post offices and transportation has enough physical security to protect the mail. Sorting through lots of physical letters to find the interesting ones is time consuming and inefficient.
Electronic communication goes everywhere. The routes between the sender and receiver are manifold and only partially known and controlled by reliable operators. Innumerable people can get in touch with the digital packets, and the signals can be copied, registered, analysed, modified and stored, all without the sender and receiver really knowing. Sorting through the interesting bits is trivial. The only thing actually protecting this communication is the mathematics used to encrypt the digital packets so that only the intended receiver can open them.
The same goes for digital storage as with communication. If a device is lost or stolen, the only way to protect the information on it is through the proper use of encryption.
Mathematics do not bend to what is convenient. Either encryption and computer security is implemented properly and both the bad and good guys are denied access, or it is implemented wrongly, and sooner or later everyone will have access.
For this problem, there really is no middle ground. We as society must make a choice.
Security and privacy, or none of it.
And make no mistake, if we choose the latter, once the Internet of Things catches on for real, we will all be in deep doo-doo.
I don't think encryption is the only way - my smartphone, for example, has an app whereby I can delete all of the data on it from my computer if I happen to lose it or have it stolen. That said, you've done a good job of explaining why this is fundamentally different, so thank you.