Lexicus
Deity
Bull. Just because I am not going to let them make me suffer doesn't mean they aren't being unfair. Their behavior brings them consequences.
Where we differ is in the idea that "being a slave means they were suffering," as an example. I say that the suffering is optional, but that doesn't mean I'm okay with keeping slaves. Plenty of people think I was sent to prison so that I could be made to justifiably suffer, and some get pretty pissed off when I tell them that if they think that's what prison is for they better think again because it failed. I went to prison, and didn't give anyone the satisfaction of suffering about it...but that doesn't mean that I didn't go.
Be a slave. Go to prison. Get cancer. Lose a loved one. Suffer. Those are five unique things. Not one of them requires any of the others.
Why is slavery wrong if it doesn't inflict suffering on slaves?