There is a critical difference between striving for a high standard of decorum and actively antagonizing prospective participants outside of the established clique. Before IOT even existed, I had made tentative forays into the NES forums and must have found the community at a low point, because I could not believe the animosity some of the players held toward what appeared to be new recruits, for reasons I could not even see in the context of the games. And I'm not talking about people like christos; these poor sods seemed to be wholeheartedly trying, but were being tarred and feathered for violating some invisible custom tied to identity politics rather than play style.