I did. Already. You dismissed them as not really good examples because of Reasons.
To give an example nonetheless, you could take Blood and Iron, an IOT, and transpose it to the NES forum as is with no NESer going "hang on, this is not a NES." I know because I did this with CNES. I didn't copy the exact look of Blood and Iron but I did borrow from its spreadsheet-based stats and rules - in fact the way the stats were presented and the rigid reliance on hard rule and numbers make it very akin to an IOT. Other than that, the rules were completely of my own undertaking, and I maintain that I could have run CNES as CIOT and got no turned heads. The reason people saw CNES as a NES was the name and place.
And I don't see the cultural difference beyond the hubris. I'm sorry, I don't. In truth, NESers seem more interested with their image as being paragons of roleplay and diplo-politica than with actually being those things. One need only look at all of the RTORs, the DipNESes, the ZPNES, and even EQ's NESes as a perfect case example of how NESers are quite capable of operating IOT-like games, with IOT-like concern for "winning" and a lack of any regard for intellectualism or realism, with no apparent respect for irony.