Ask A Girl IV: Boundless Questions
- Thread starter Boundless
- Start date
- Status
sophie
Break My Heart
PeteAtoms
FormulaRandom
That famous scene from Say Anything with John Cusack:
Link to video.
Thoughts on this? Romantic? Corny?
If it were you, what song would be playing on the boom box?
Link to video.
Thoughts on this? Romantic? Corny?
If it were you, what song would be playing on the boom box?
classical_hero
In whom I trust
When you are looking at a guy for the first time, what is the ting you look for first in a guy?
Boundless
Deity
Totally and utterly romantic. It's corny, but in a beautiful way, and no one can deny that. If someone did that to me to try and win my heart, they'd do it, no question. Think the song would have to be something that related to that person and me, but off the top of my head... probably...
Link to video.
or
Link to video.
What would you have on your boom box if you did this for a girl?
Eyes, shoulders. Then if he's too chubby or too skinny for my liking.
GenMarshall
High Elven ISB Capt & Ghost Agent
There's that word again!! With so much emphasis placed on too chubby, I just might have to foot up a lypo procedure.
Or, you know, eat healthy and exercise, maybe. 
Girl question: If you cheated on your boyfriend and lied to him multiple times, and he then dumped you, would you seriously expect him to want to rekindle a friendship two years later?
Girl question: If you cheated on your boyfriend and lied to him multiple times, and he then dumped you, would you seriously expect him to want to rekindle a friendship two years later?
GenMarshall
High Elven ISB Capt & Ghost Agent
I know this is a girl question. Though I would chirp in to say that rekindling a friendship with a girl who cheated and lied to me would be the LAST thing I would ever do. I've been there when the girl cheated behind my back and then dumped me, twice!!!!
(Abet it was a different girl, but similar scenario).
Boundless
Deity
Or, you know, eat healthy and exercise, maybe.
Girl question: If you cheated on your boyfriend and lied to him multiple times, and he then dumped you, would you seriously expect him to want to rekindle a friendship two years later?
Ouwf, that's very hard to say. Depends on the lies and how many times you'd cheated I suppose. From a personal position, I had one bf cheat on me and we're now very good friends, have been for years, but we weren't together that long and we were young when it happened. Another ex however, who I was with for near 3 years, who did the same, I wouldn't dream of being friends with because of how much it hurt considering how long we'd been together. I suppose it's situational. I've never cheated on anyone, but I'd say yes I would 2 YEARS later, although maybe not expect friendship, just hope for one. She can't expect anything from you frankly. I assume this is something that's happened to you recently then?
True, it probably is. The lies were multiple times, the cheating once that I know of for sure, likely at least twice, maybe more. Who knows? And while I'm long past being mad about it and don't bear her any ill-will... I have a hard time understanding why she still expects us to become friends.
Yep, just the latest attempt on her part. The time before this, she started calling / emailing me out of the blue, wanting to be friends... and I happened to find out that she'd just gone through a breakup a matter of days beforehand. I wouldn't be surprised if the same thing is happening this time - just got out of a relationship and needs a man to make her feel better about herself - but I don't know and don't really care.
RE: "Two YEARS later" - do you really think that the passage of time undoes the choices you make in life? I mean, the pain goes away, sure - but I don't think any amount of years would change my perspective. Decisions have consequences; this is one of those consequences. IMO you can't go through life trying to sweep your mistakes under the rug. You own up, learn from them, and move forward. It's not even anything bitter, angry, or hurt on my part; I'm purely pragmatic about it, but still don't see any reason to reward her dishonesty and infidelity with my friendship.
Kennigit
proud 2 boxer
Let's talk hair.
Now, I don't mean pretty hair, I mean guy hair. And not that hair, all you dirty minded cfcers. I mean leg hair. In another thread (re: member photos), people are currently having a discussion about shoes. Apparently, you (Boundless) have also said in this thread that a "Shoe makes the outfit" or something similiar (I have not read the entire thread).
Now, I have rather hairy legs; quite often I have the hairiest legs in the room. And I frequently will wear flip flops in the summer/warm weather now. There is hair on my feet.
So if a shoe completes an outfit, presumably girls are looking at my feet and seeing hairy legs and semi-hairy feet. How much of a turn-off is hairy legs? Do women assume my chest will be extremely hairy too? (and how much of a turn off would that be?).
Now, I don't mean pretty hair, I mean guy hair. And not that hair, all you dirty minded cfcers. I mean leg hair. In another thread (re: member photos), people are currently having a discussion about shoes. Apparently, you (Boundless) have also said in this thread that a "Shoe makes the outfit" or something similiar (I have not read the entire thread).
Now, I have rather hairy legs; quite often I have the hairiest legs in the room. And I frequently will wear flip flops in the summer/warm weather now. There is hair on my feet.
So if a shoe completes an outfit, presumably girls are looking at my feet and seeing hairy legs and semi-hairy feet. How much of a turn-off is hairy legs? Do women assume my chest will be extremely hairy too? (and how much of a turn off would that be?).
LucyDuke
staring at the clock
FWIW, I don't pay much attention to shoes. We are not the borg.
Hairy chests are worse than hairy legs. I don't make assumptions based on one about the other. It's also not a dealbreaker, and there's not much you can do about it anyway.
Hairy chests are worse than hairy legs. I don't make assumptions based on one about the other. It's also not a dealbreaker, and there's not much you can do about it anyway.
Hygro
soundcloud.com/hygro/
Dude, keep the hair, but trim it to a reasonable length, and then own it. The older girls like it anyway--some girls love its manliness, others don't feel it. So just own it.
Narz
keeping it real
Weird, I have held doors open for women like a thousand times & not one has ever been offended. Is this really a common phenomenon?
PeteAtoms
FormulaRandom
You must be doing it wrong.
Holycannoli
Deity
- Joined
- Apr 4, 2006
- Messages
- 2,406
I just heard about a (very small) study that said men should wear eyeliner to attract women. At first I said "WTH?" then I thought of the appeal of rock musicians and Johnny Depp's Jack Sparrow character, and I know the appeal when I dress as him.
Is it weird for guys to wear eyeliner, as I'm thinking, or is there some truth to this?
Is it weird for guys to wear eyeliner, as I'm thinking, or is there some truth to this?
Eat_Up_Martha
Prince
I'm with Narz. I always hold doors open for people and I've never had anyone get pissed off. Occasionally there's that awkward moment when I've misjudged a distance a held a door open for somebody before they arrived, so they scurried a little bit to make it through in short order. But yeah, nobody's ever got mad.
- Status
