@Squonk: A bit of a personal question so feel free not to go into this.
Here in The Netherlands Poland is still seen as a country that is very intolarable against homosexuals.
I think this vision on Poland comes mainly because of the Polish government/parliament being very intolarable. Judging from the reactions of the MP's on a statement from the first (and only?) homosexual MP (forgot what it was exactly) I think it still is.
I was wondering how you experience it and how the "regular" Poles think about homosexuality in daily life?
I think it's changing, changing rapidly.
In modern history, homosexuality was never a crime: the first polish laws established after regaining independance (after ww1), decriminalised homosexuality, which was a crime in Prussia, Austria and Russia, I think. But it was never something many spoke about and obviously people had problems. Only the 80's and 90's introduced this problem into attention. Mostly because of AIDS. Mikołaj Kozakiewicz (later on speaker of the parliament; allegedly he was of Tatar origin and nominally muslim, interesting thing, but he was veeery liberal for his times and for his party: he was in favour of legalising soft drugs etc) started defending gay rights and suggested creating gay organisation. But it had no consequences. However, several polish gay organisations were created, mostly to educate people to have safe sex etc.
In the 90's, "pedal", which is a slur for gay, was still commonly used as a slur against anyone. I was aware very early I was gay, which was a bad thing, actually. The anti-gay attitude of the society was strong to the point that as a kid I "defended" Freddie Mercury against claims he was gay, although I knew well I was myself.
I've had a lot of problems in school because of being well, somewhat effeminate (meaning I looked as a girl, I have very long eyelashes and stuff, and I was too calm for a boy and so on). I've had giant problems because of it, actually. But it was my case and probably my gayness was not the only factor, you know, but because it showed, and I was weak physically and psychically. But if the children at my holiday group chanted "chlopczyna (which is boy-girl"), and at another "Mary" after me, I know it was all because I was girly. But I was mostly concerned with when that hostility reached my own class at school, my best friends. Poland, at least my city, was no place for gay kids in the 90's.
But I think it's changing and it's already changed very much. Young people are extremly liberal when it comes to these affairs. People voting for Palikot's party (the one with gay and transsexual MPs) were mostly 18-30 or so. There are more or less openly gay teenagers, students and so on these days. I assure you: there was NO-ONE openly gay in the 90s or earlier on. No one. There were some important men in polish culture, but even them were keeping it dark etc and it was only mentioned some time after their death and so on. And we've had some openly gay celebrities and coming outs in the last several years.
And it also depends on the region. There are some very conservative regions and some liberal ones.
So I say: there's not one "polish" attitude towards gays. I think it's more diverse than in Netherlands. You've reached a new paradigm. Poland in the 90's and earlier was still using the old one, and nowdays it's shifting from one to another, and there are both very liberal people and very conservative ones.
I think most people are still conservative. Don't be misled by PO party. Some of its members are liberal (especially the ones who were nibbled out of SLD), but some are just as conservative as PiS, only more sane. It's amazing this party stays together. Mostly because of staying in power, probably. Actually, one of the arguments against PiS (conservatives) was that J. Kaczynski (its leader) is allegedly gay. After all, he is a celibataire who lives with his mother and a cat only, so he must be gay in his enemies' minds. And such thinking is homophobic, actually. PO will not risk any changes in the official attitude towards gays. But it will also not try to stop mental changes in the society that will once make these changes desired by most society. PSL is conservative morally. SLD's electorate is mostly conservative morally as well (just like communists were), but their politicians will officially support gay rights.