There is little reason to doubt that there is extraterrestrial life in our galaxy. Intelligent life (of human equivalence presumably?)... perhaps, but markedly less likely than just there being life.
If we consider the age of the universe and the amount of time it took for us to evolve here on Earth, however, and account for the number of planets orbiting other stars and their distance from us, the question of there being life of intelligence equivalent to our own becomes meaningless presently. It would not be possible for us to know of the existence, let alone to meet any other such life (equivalently intelligent or not), coexisting with us in this galaxy.
Imagine, it takes 15 light years for light to travel to the nearest known certainly terrestrial planet. If a species of equivalent intelligence to humans evolved there simultaneously to us it would take a nearly insurmountable amount of time to traverse the distance and back and forth communication would be at best terribly inefficient. And that's an ideal situation with relatively near distances. In the vastness of our galaxy the question becomes pointless for what I should hope are very, very obvious reasons.