Calculating and checking your calorie intake takes a lot of discipline and time.
I don't agree, if you can do arithmetic in your head you can be effective with a tiny fraction of the time you'd need for even a halfway respectable workout regimen. Aside from said arithmetic/measuring, reducing calorie intake fundamentally requires *not* doing something (aka eating more calories).
In contrast, working out 50 minutes three times a week requires committing to the workout + changing + going to the gym if applicable + misc logistic stuff. This is many times greater than simply adding up your caloric intake for the day and stopping when you run out (with a marginal effort to have something around 1/3 left at the end for dinner).
Calorie reduction is obviously much better for losing weight. However that's not necessarily true if you want to measure health outright. It depends how overweight.
Oh yes, except nowadays, you'd better slim up and not only that, get fit and muscular/athletic, if you dream of getting with a woman, fat boy.
Or forget about the modern/fit women even looking at you.
Such are the facts.
I don't believe this, it's inconsistent with what I've read and observed. It is unusual for people with egregiously different appearances to go out, but aside from that attraction isn't so simple.
It is what's inside that counts... what's inside your wallet. Seriously if you want chicks you can either get really good looking or make a lot of money. Either works.
Money will buy you a certain kind of affection for sure, but probably not the kind the previous poster had in mind.
I can see how dating is expensive for men, but I don't think there's more "gold diggers" now than a few decades ago, it's the other way around. At least now it's socially acceptable to split the bill for a meal, try doing that in the 1950s..
There are probably more in the absolute sense (there are more total people), but I doubt the % has gone up. Maybe it's even gone down.
Women should be happy to date a fat guy, with a nice personality, but god forbid you'd end up with a fat chick with a nice personality, right?..
Indeed. I at least like to see people holding themselves to standards they hold others.
It's not a level playing field though, and I say that from a lens that has been on both sides of it, even going to one and (mostly) back. Baseline impressions are pretty variable when you physically look better or worse...and considering the amount of effort required from one person to the next that's pretty nasty.