You know what, fine. Frak it. I have never understood why people cannot be decent and civil in RIP threads. Jesus, at least for the first few pages/days. But clearly it is impossible. So have the hell at it,Moderator Action: <snip>
As SS-18 pointed out the penultimate sentence of your OP is highly problematic and arguably a contradiction in terms.
There certainly is such a thing a decency relevant to recently deceased public figures.
But i am not sure this includes immunity from criticism.
All too often people try to invoke such immunity for the dead under the cover of decency for ulterior motives (i.e. causes they shared or believe to have shared with that person).
Of course the same charge can be made against many of the critics in such instances as well.
Anywho, i suppose in part the dispute here may be about whom or what we are supposed to honor. The man or the symbol?
As a symbol Sharon would be hard to criticise in a thread like this one. Any accusation against him can easily be inferred to be one against Israel.
But if we are to honor the man, we can very well recognise service to his nation as well as other qualities and note faults and failures at the same time.
I struggled with this when i first saw these two threads, cause it reminded me of the recent debate on the legitimacy of criticism fielded (particularly in certain media in the US) against Nelson Mandela.
At first i thought that perhabs Mandela was a better man than Sharon. I suppose a case to that end could be made.
But in retrospect i can't shake the feeling that when it came to Mandela people were insisting upon honoring the symbol rather than the man, but people are more reluctant to do so in the case of Sharon.
I have the suspicion that people feel - correctly or not - that Sharon isn't Israel, that Israel is a whole lot bigger than Sharon and that South Africa in its magnificent dysfunction has a very hard time measurig up to Mandela and is much more in the need of symbols such as national heroes.
Thus the double standard i have asumed to exist here may be one of pity rather than respect or prejudice.
This can apply somewhat to often tiresome debates on matters regarding Israel and Palestine - a possibilty often overlooked by proponents of decidedly pro-israeli positions:
Their adversaries in such debates may very well hold no particular ill will against Israel, but merely regard Israel strong and centered enough as a nation or a society or whatever to be held to the standards of civilised nations while not holding Israels opposition to the same standard - out of pity rather than prejudice.